2 1.2 months to the wedding and my mothers getting tougher.....VENT
I really am questioning if i will be able to last till the wedding.
I wrote in the past of my dress dilema, how she hated it, and was very jealous that my cousin was with me when i found it....
then she took over planning my shower, picked the place i least liked, didnt play any games after me giving her sheets of games for ideas, wouldnt let mike be part of the surprise until he sneaked in, and actually got it to be a surprise.....
then when her calligrapher friend picked up the envelope, she pointed out to my mother that the return address is fh's house instead of mine, which her, she said stuff like im paying for the wedding, which i responded no, its only covering the reception part, not even half the wedding... and the lady tells her the area we are moving into isnt good, so I get 45 minutes of yelling about the area/town/house being horrible and that she was prepping me for a better area, then i go and pick this.... ***.......
durring that point she goes 'mike never talks, never comes in the house'..... I said 'you ask him'....................................................... SO WHAT DOES SHE DO TODAY??????????at my family party, when we are all sitting down at the dinner table, with grandma, aunt, uncle, sister, bil, father, FIRST thing she does when she sits down.......why dont you come in the house, do you not like me and husband??...... no response..... i guess no response means yes.........no..... then awkward silence, then i say well you know he can listen to the sports updates in the car...... she goes Well i brought my children up to not be so into material possessions, was that so bad jane(my sister)....... i was soooooooooooo close to walking out but then my uncle walked into the room and switched the subject.........
how could she do that in front of the whole family? and try and group my dad in with her???
UGHHHHhh..... he doesnt come in the house because he hears of all the bashing she does towards me, mike, his family, and the house we are buying..... he doesnt have this problem with ANYONE else in my family outside of my grandmother who says inappropriate things but doesnt know better.... my mother knows better, but wants the attention......![]()
I wrote in the past of my dress dilema, how she hated it, and was very jealous that my cousin was with me when i found it....
then she took over planning my shower, picked the place i least liked, didnt play any games after me giving her sheets of games for ideas, wouldnt let mike be part of the surprise until he sneaked in, and actually got it to be a surprise.....
then when her calligrapher friend picked up the envelope, she pointed out to my mother that the return address is fh's house instead of mine, which her, she said stuff like im paying for the wedding, which i responded no, its only covering the reception part, not even half the wedding... and the lady tells her the area we are moving into isnt good, so I get 45 minutes of yelling about the area/town/house being horrible and that she was prepping me for a better area, then i go and pick this.... ***.......
durring that point she goes 'mike never talks, never comes in the house'..... I said 'you ask him'....................................................... SO WHAT DOES SHE DO TODAY??????????at my family party, when we are all sitting down at the dinner table, with grandma, aunt, uncle, sister, bil, father, FIRST thing she does when she sits down.......why dont you come in the house, do you not like me and husband??...... no response..... i guess no response means yes.........no..... then awkward silence, then i say well you know he can listen to the sports updates in the car...... she goes Well i brought my children up to not be so into material possessions, was that so bad jane(my sister)....... i was soooooooooooo close to walking out but then my uncle walked into the room and switched the subject.........
how could she do that in front of the whole family? and try and group my dad in with her???
UGHHHHhh..... he doesnt come in the house because he hears of all the bashing she does towards me, mike, his family, and the house we are buying..... he doesnt have this problem with ANYONE else in my family outside of my grandmother who says inappropriate things but doesnt know better.... my mother knows better, but wants the attention......
