2 questions..

1. With the unity candle, we have the candle and the tapers but we do not have a holder.. is that a big deal??? also do I bring the unity candle to the reception??

2. Which hand is my wedding band going on , and am I supposed to where my e ring?? if so what hand?

1. I don't think a pillar holder is a 'must have'
2. your w-ring goes on your left ring finer. I am going to wear my e-ring on my right hand during the ceremony.

1. You shoul ddefinitely review this point with the church/ceremony coordinator. You don't have to have a unity candle set but you want to make sure that they have something to hold the tapers up...otherwise I'm not sure how you would be able to have the tappers lit.

2. You place your e-ring on your right hand. The wedding band will be placed on your left hand and then at any point after that you can put the e-ring back on the left hand. Remember the wedding band goes first - closest to your heart.