2010 girls whos rsvp dates have passed (including married ladies)...

pipermaru Posted: Apr 28, 2010 08:27 PM

2010 girls whos rsvp dates have passed (including married ladies)...

can you give me an idea of invited versus attended (and any last minute drop outs)

we are soooooooo not gonna make our 200 person min (kinda freaking out)

our rsvp date is friday and still missing 50+ rsvps. hate everyone!

edited for spelling

StaceyWill Posted: Apr 28, 2010 08:33 PM

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We invited almost 180 and 120 are coming. We had one person drop out so far. I don't know why but I've heard that this year there are a lot more no's than people expected.

slyman1101 Posted: Apr 28, 2010 08:42 PM

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we invited like 204 or something. i think we had to hunt down about 15 for rsvps- not too bad. we had 182 reply yes, then 8 last minute drop outs (the week before) so we had 174 which was fine. we guaranteed 160 and 7 of the 8 drop outs were before we made our final payment so it worked out okay.

Clover23 Posted: Apr 28, 2010 09:11 PM

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We invited 215 and wound up with 165 yesses (our minimum was 165). Then 2 ppl backed out, so we were under minimum. FH invited a guy from work and his wife, and my dad invited another guy from work and his wife. They all said yes, so now we have 167. There is a potental of 4 people that will be last minute drop-outs due to health reasons. So.... we'll see.

We had a LOT of unexpected no's - many people who 'should' have been 'and guest' but are coming without their significant others. idk why.

daniellek730 Posted: Apr 28, 2010 09:51 PM

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We invited about 180. We had our minimum of 125 and then 7 people didn't show.

People were still sending their rsvp's 2 weeks before the wedding (mostly noes). We also had to track them down and wait for their responses... again. It was really annoying.

bkitaliana Posted: Apr 28, 2010 11:03 PM

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My wedding is small. .Invited 78, 70 are coming, the rest are not. My RSVP date was 4/15 and yesterday (4/27) I received the responses for the Best Man, a Groomsman, FH paternal grandmother and his aunt/uncle. We knew they were coming of course but still like sending back the friggin card. They finally sent them and we got them 2 weeks after the RSVP date.

dfw343 Posted: Apr 29, 2010 12:17 PM

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invited 213
was at 149(my min was 140)
but keep in mind 90% of the nos sent a gift anyways...

day of 3 people did not show.
another called night before as not coming but sent gift with friend attending...

Dont panic..I have to chase a lot of people down after rsvp date!

Diana508 Posted: Apr 29, 2010 12:26 PM

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Invited 189.
160 Final Count - approx 15% 'no' rate.
3 cancellations between RSVP deadline to now, giving my numbers in on Monday.

My RSVP deadline I still had 60ish responses left!

MayBride2010 Posted: Apr 29, 2010 12:42 PM

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uggghhh...why can't people respond!

My rsvp date is this Sat 5/1. And I am currently waiting on 69 responses!

Lovebug2016 Posted: Apr 29, 2010 12:44 PM

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Invited 220, and by the day of the party we had a total of 150 show up. There were several people I had to hunt down after the deadline. Had about 3 people back out the week before/ of and 1 no show. And about half the people who RSVP'd no sent gifts.