i feel like hav eos much to do and i dont have enoght clothes or luggage for Honey moon and i feel likemy dress sucs and i dont have everthing under control. i dont think i can handle this!!!
soon2bmrsdunn
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Make a list of what still needs to be done and handle one thing at a time.
Don't worry, it will all work out in the end!
iamvocal72
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oh sweetie - Please take a breath.
It's all good.
Honeymoon issues - call around to family members - who has extra luggage you can borrow? No family, what about friends? Ask around.
Clothing? Lack there off? Get your behind to Kohls. Tons of sales - for $100 you can literally purchase half a new wardrobe.
GO TAKE A YOGA CLASS.
You will be OK. Take a nap. Or a nip.
Be Well. Make some tea. Draw a bath - better yet - have some SEX!
Enjoy!
crsy7
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thank you so much for the support!
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Posted by soon2bmrsdunn
Make a list of what still needs to be done and handle one thing at a time.
Don't worry, it will all work out in the end!
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I feel the same way! The day will be awesome. Buy yourself as many chlothes as you want. It's your honeymoon and you'll use them again. Don't cheap out on yourself at all right now.
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you can do it!
we were actually shopping for HM clothes for DH, the DAY BEFORE our HM. and honestly, worst case scenario, buy some clothes out there!
as for getting things handled, i know exactly what you mean....i was the same way! but in the end it all works out. we are our own worst enemies when it comes to stress!!!
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You will be fine, you wil get everything done. Dont worry. Do one thing at a time and try not to stress.
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Posted by iamvocal72
oh sweetie - Please take a breath.
It's all good.
Honeymoon issues - call around to family members - who has extra luggage you can borrow? No family, what about friends? Ask around.
Clothing? Lack there off? Get your behind to Kohls. Tons of sales - for $100 you can literally purchase half a new wardrobe.
GO TAKE A YOGA CLASS.
You will be OK. Take a nap. Or a nip.
Be Well. Make some tea. Draw a bath - better yet - have some SEX!
Enjoy!
Awesome advice!! Just breathe... Making a list helps me whenever I have something to get done that includes a lot of steps. Just check a few things off the list everyday. It WILL get done. Kohls is great and so is Target if you're short on cash... Get some clothes that you will be comfortable in!! Especially shoes!! Having sex helps too!! Take it easy and if you need to vent some more, we will be here for ya sweetie!!
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Take a deep breathe.. go for a walk or to the gym .. come back and make a list of things you need to do. I think it is normal to feel this way... Everything will work out and you will have an amazing day!
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it will be all ok, just make a list of everything that has to be done, and hae FH do some of it. I totally feel the same way with only 15 days left. Just have to do one thing at a time, and it will be ok.
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by the way, Old Navy has some cute skirts, and if you go to Sam's club, you can get a whole 5 piece Samsonite luggage for like $150. We got one set for our bridal shower, then we went out and bought 1 more set, so we both have a large suitcase to bring with us.
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thanks you sooo much for the help!! u know i dont have a mother and my fmil doesnt really help and my moh can only do so much!! but you all really mad me feel some what better!!!i truly thank you
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Posted by soon2bmrsdunn
Make a list of what still needs to be done and handle one thing at a time.
Don't worry, it will all work out in the end!
I agree! If you actually physically check stuff off a list you will see how much you actually accomplish.
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You will be just fine. Pamper yourself with something you love. If you're totally focused on the wedding life gets a little outta whack! Take some time for yourself and everything will be alright.
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Hunny I'm with you it is a VERY overwhelming time right now! We all need to keep it together!!!! I've been making daily lists of what I need ot do everyday! Everything will fall into place!!! XOXOXO Kitty
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Try and make a list and you will be fine! Don't worry or least try not to!
Marchbride07
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It is definitely a very overwhelming time but it will work out! I am the day before you so I am feeling the stress too!
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Whats wrong with me!! i have 57 days and i am feeling so much stress. I always told myself i didnt want any stress in the wedding planning. I guess that never happens. I would love to make a list but i dont know where to begin. I love all the advice they gave to you hun!! sounds good ... especiall the hot bath and extracuricular activities. your day will be beautiful your dress is going to be amazing. and as for HM clothes... .GO COMANDOE!!!!!!!!!!! lol jk. Khols had some awesome stuff.. thought i was having one of those nothing looks good days. Smile hun. Im here if you need to vent!!!
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Whats wrong with me!! i have 57 days and i am feeling so much stress. I always told myself i didnt want any stress in the wedding planning. I guess that never happens. I would love to make a list but i dont know where to begin. I love all the advice they gave to you hun!! sounds good ... especiall the hot bath and extracuricular activities. your day will be beautiful your dress is going to be amazing. and as for HM clothes... .GO COMANDOE!!!!!!!!!!! lol jk. Khols had some awesome stuff.. thought i was having one of those nothing looks good days. Smile hun. Im here if you need to vent!!!
