2ND GUESSING

2ND GUESSING

Anyone else find that they are constantly 2nd guessing decisions they've made?? My newest doubt is over my CP's. I originally love how simple and elegant they were and now I suddenly feel they are too simple and plain!!!!

This happens with almost every decision I make

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Yes!!! I am 2nd guessing the color of my flowers and keep going back and forth.... I almost feel like its driving me crazy

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Yes I second guess everything!! FH wants to kill me on a daily basis cause I second guess every wedding decision and everyday decisions lol. I have learned to start ignoring myself. I feel this works the best.. or i tell FH to ultimately make the decision. I hate it. I swear they should make medication for it.

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Yes I totally get that too! I'm pretty much the worst decision maker ever so everything I've picked I'm already second guessing myself.

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i second guess everything! seriously I told my friends to shoot me cause I keep changing my mind

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It happens and it has happened to me b/c i planned very early on, but I only made minor changes to things. I was told is mostly nerves and the anxiety to have everything looking perfect. This is normal.

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Yep...all the time!! I actually just bought new shoes because I no longer loved the original ones!

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I get that way with some things. I just try to remind myself that the guests won't know what the other option was, so they won't be comparing what I've chosen with something else the way that I am.

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Posted by jmd75

Anyone else find that they are constantly 2nd guessing decisions they've made?? My newest doubt is over my CP's. I originally love how simple and elegant they were and now I suddenly feel they are too simple and plain!!!!

This happens with almost every decision I make

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You have so much time before you have to finalize your CPs. I'm doing my sample about a month before. You have to see what flowers are in season and healthy closer to your wedding date. Don't worry!

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yes I do this all the time.. the problem is the more you plan and research the more pics and ideas you see and get you start changing your mind!

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Yes, this happens to me a lot! I seem to be second guessing almost every decision I make. I am always afraid I will like something more later, so I put off making decisions until it is almost too late!

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I felt like this about our RH. But I got over it. You just want everything to be perfect so you start freaking out about whether you made the right decision or not.

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I second guess everything. My dress, my DOJ, etc. It drives me crazy!

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i second guess myself constantly. i don't know why, i just do so i think you're normal. cuz if you're normal, then i'm normal

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Yes, I am all the time. But I think at this point I am just going to stick with what I came up with first and hope it works out for the best.

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I've second guessed my dress, my colors, my BM dresses, my flowers, my invites... yeah, just about everything. I think I have Obssessive Complusive Undecisiveness ...

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I second guess every wedding decision I have made. I am always happy with my decision for a day or two after signing thecontract, then after that the second guessing commences. But in the end I always go with my first instinct and I know I made the right decision. I drive my FH crazy!!

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not only that but i cant make any decision on my own, i need to ask everyone!!!!

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I cannot seem to make any decisions on my own and I am constantly second guessing myself. Glad Im not the only one who does this...i feel like a crazy person! LOL

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i seem to do that all the time. the best thing i can do is ...close it up and go onto something else, cause i would make myself crazy changing things every other day.