2nd guessing

2nd guessing

Does anyone find themselves 2nd guessing all their decisions?? I feel like I keep reading reviews looking for negative things so I can just expect something to go wrong Ahhhh

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I definitely have done this!!! But then I think... no matter what 'could possibly' go wrong, I don't think any vendor/venue mess up could ruin the day I marry the love of my life!

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What are you 2nd guessing? I do sometimes but then it goes away. I think it's just that I see so much on this site, and on the wedding channels that I want everything pretty that I see!

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Ah I'm second guessing that too....I just read a few bad reviews and am worried about it!!

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I have also been second guessing my reception hall. It was the first one we saw and based on impluse we booked it. Now I have seen some other beautiful places and I wonder if I have made the right decision. Its too late now..

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I guess when it really comes down to it, it's our weddings...we make it the day we want and only we will notice if the place cards get messed up or if something is wrong. It's just easier to say it than believe it yourself sometimes!!

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Me!!!!!!!!!! Sounds like its pretty common though. You end up seeing so many beautiful pictures on here of other places/things and it gets you thinking.....

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I definitely second guess occassionally... I just try to remind myself of why I went with my decision in the first place and trust that everything the day of will be fabulous!

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I think 2nd guessing everything is just a stage all brides go thru. We want everything to be perfect and somehow think 'hmm I wonder what it would have been like if I did this or bought this instead.' I have a few times already thought to myself 'omg what if my FH doesnt like my dress even though I love it' I told him that once and he said I would look beautiful walking down the aisle in a bag haha...But you originally chose everything you did because you liked/loved it! and no matter what.. Your getting married to your best friend and starting your future together... So when I start to 2nd guess things I think of that and how lucky I am to have my FH and nothing can be better than that feeling of knowing next year I get to be his Mrs.

Go with your Gut, heart, instinct!

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I've definitely done that, but right now I am pretty confident in my choices

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its normal to second guess yourself, but at one point you have to just stop and be happy and satisfied with the decisions you've made. there will always be something prettier or better than what you've chosem maybe even more expensive, but you have to be content knowing your still going to have an amazing time for your wedding. you definately shouldn't LOOK for negative things about your vendors, hopefing to find them, but do your research before you book them!

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OMG i do it all the time the best thing to do is not look at other vendors once u pick yours Its so hard

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I never 2nd guessed my hall or my dress........thank GOD but i have 2nd guessed my vendors. I wont say which ones because i know they lurk on here but in the end I choose them for a reason and I have to go with that. They are all great vendors but I just think with all of the money your spending and the importance of the day 2nd guessing is normal