I have been fine throughout the entire planning of my wedding. But with only 3 days to go I have already cried twice today! I feel like I am going to be a crying mess at my wedding! Was anyone able to hold it together at their wedding (or cried the whole time???)
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I was a mess 3 days before too! It will get better. I had huge fight with my husband the night of our RD, I was out of control, overly sensitive and on edge. IT's normal don't worry sweetie! The friday before the wedding and the day of, I was cool as cucumber! Everything was done, I laid back did my girly primping and took it in that the man I love soo much will be my husband tomorrow. I thought I would be a mess the whole day, the only time I cried was when I saw my husband for the first time, and my father daughter dance.
It'll be ok
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I was fine OK because I was working--last night my FH was really sick (on antibiotics) and called for some sympathy--I was up all night working on placecards and didn't want to hear his whining because I was feeling bad for myself and got really snappish! I am definitely on edge, and probably will be more so the next 2 days with no work, just wedding stuff to keep me busy!
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Don't worry, everyone hits that emotional wall at some point, but you'll get past it. I was a wreck about 2 weeks before the wedding, but then a weird calm came over me and i was pretty much ok. That's not to say that hearing my wedding song on the radio didn't make me cry, but I wasn't a maniac or anything. You'll be great! Just take the emotions in stride, it's part of the journey!
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Aww, all of us who have recently been married knows what you are going thru. I was a mess the weeks leading up to my big day, but by the Saturday before and the day of, I was happy and calm as could be. Trust us, what you are going thru right now is normal
Once your wedding day arrives, every bit of stress you had leading up to the big day will slowsly dissapate, and you will start to remember what the day is truly for -- you and your FH, and the life you will begin together as husband and wife ! You will be fine!!
Good luck and remember to enjoy your day -- it will be one of the best days of your life!
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Posted by pinkgirl
I have been fine throughout the entire planning of my wedding. But with only 3 days to go I have already cried twice today! I feel like I am going to be a crying mess at my wedding! Was anyone able to hold it together at their wedding (or cried the whole time???)
You wil be FINE.....DId you drop off all your stuff to East Wind yet? Once you do that, and realize there is not much else to do last minute as far as the reception, the uneasiness and emotions will pass...BELIEVE ME....I dropped my stuff on a Thursday, and Friday I went shopping, Saturday id id my pedi, and packed for Honeymoon...
Which bldg is your wedding in? My Maitre D in the Gardens was John and I cannot say enough GREAT about him!
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My nerves kicked in yesterday and to top it off I'm pms'ing. Should have got it days ago and now will likely get it on the wedding day. I'm pretty crabby just ask FH
pinkgirl - looks like we're at The Inn same time, just opposite sides - Good Luck!!!
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Posted by katone
My nerves kicked in yesterday and to top it off I'm pms'ing. Should have got it days ago and now will likely get it on the wedding day. I'm pretty crabby just ask FH
pinkgirl - looks like we're at The Inn same time, just opposite sides - Good Luck!!!
Well, not for nothing, but I got AF for the wedding day....and beleive it or not,, you don;t really worry about it...everyuone told me that you don;t let it get in your way and Iw as like, How do you NOT? But I see...you get so caught up in the day....it does not matter WHAT happens..you can deal with it!!
Just Enjoy the day!!
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I dropped off everything last night. It felt good. My MD is Joyce. She seemed really nice and organized. But now I have a TON of stuff to do today! I am frazzled!
