4 days out and....
I've never shared my 'personal life' on here... but today I will because I need to vent and get this out.
I also never, ever make facebook statuses, but because I was getting fed up over the reaction from co-workers about my decision to keep my last name I decided yesterday to post a status to get my frustration out--not directing at anyone in particular and it especially had NOTHING to do with anyone on my facebook friend's list. So I was not just posting some passive aggressive comment to someone without being direct. The people it was directed to aren't even ON facebook.
Sooo long story short, I go to a wedding, I get home and see that I had comments on my status. Most agreeing with me and saying 'Good for you', etc.
My fiance's uncle (who mind you, is his mother's brother--so my fiance' and he do NOT have the same last name) posted 'Wow', so my fiance' figured his uncle thought that was a status directed towards my fiance'. My fiance' wrote this amazing comment about how it was not directed towards him and how my decision in keeping my maiden name does not make us any less married and that he fully supports that decision, etc.
That SHOULD have been the last thing written, but nope, his uncle wrote 'I agree so that's why we should keep our personal
lives personal not online good grief charley brown'
My response: 'If someone doesn't care to hear about my personal life or
what i choose to share on Facebook then they should not be my friend on Facebook.'
His response: 'Ok guess we can't joke or comment here this is getting
stupid all I said was if there's a comment then people will comment
back that's all if someone doesn't want feedback then don't make a
comment' (...Is that even English?)
THEN I see his wife put up an E-Card on her Facebook that says 'Do you ever look at someone's status and just want to say shut the F up?'.... and THEN I find his uncle BLOCKED ME! (Which I then blocked his wife.)
I never once asked for anyone's thoughts or opinions and this guy doesn't know me well enough to 'joke' or even comment on what I write on Facebook!! It was just a way for me to get out what I was feeling & get the word out that no, I'm not changing my name. I am completely livid right now and I know that the cold feelings from some of my fiance's family & family-friends are because his Mother opened up to them about her 'issues' with things with my family & the wedding, etc. so they felt that they should be involved and not be nice to me and I can only assume they thought it was directed towards my fiance's parents, which isn't even true. I don't think they even know I'm not changing my last name...
These low-lifes are supposed to be at the rehearsal & dinner and obviously the wedding. I told my fiance' if they are there, I will not be there.
I also never, ever make facebook statuses, but because I was getting fed up over the reaction from co-workers about my decision to keep my last name I decided yesterday to post a status to get my frustration out--not directing at anyone in particular and it especially had NOTHING to do with anyone on my facebook friend's list. So I was not just posting some passive aggressive comment to someone without being direct. The people it was directed to aren't even ON facebook.
Sooo long story short, I go to a wedding, I get home and see that I had comments on my status. Most agreeing with me and saying 'Good for you', etc.
My fiance's uncle (who mind you, is his mother's brother--so my fiance' and he do NOT have the same last name) posted 'Wow', so my fiance' figured his uncle thought that was a status directed towards my fiance'. My fiance' wrote this amazing comment about how it was not directed towards him and how my decision in keeping my maiden name does not make us any less married and that he fully supports that decision, etc.
That SHOULD have been the last thing written, but nope, his uncle wrote 'I agree so that's why we should keep our personal
lives personal not online good grief charley brown'
My response: 'If someone doesn't care to hear about my personal life or
what i choose to share on Facebook then they should not be my friend on Facebook.'
His response: 'Ok guess we can't joke or comment here this is getting
stupid all I said was if there's a comment then people will comment
back that's all if someone doesn't want feedback then don't make a
comment' (...Is that even English?)
THEN I see his wife put up an E-Card on her Facebook that says 'Do you ever look at someone's status and just want to say shut the F up?'.... and THEN I find his uncle BLOCKED ME! (Which I then blocked his wife.)
I never once asked for anyone's thoughts or opinions and this guy doesn't know me well enough to 'joke' or even comment on what I write on Facebook!! It was just a way for me to get out what I was feeling & get the word out that no, I'm not changing my name. I am completely livid right now and I know that the cold feelings from some of my fiance's family & family-friends are because his Mother opened up to them about her 'issues' with things with my family & the wedding, etc. so they felt that they should be involved and not be nice to me and I can only assume they thought it was directed towards my fiance's parents, which isn't even true. I don't think they even know I'm not changing my last name...
These low-lifes are supposed to be at the rehearsal & dinner and obviously the wedding. I told my fiance' if they are there, I will not be there.
