4 weddings

So, I love this show, but I hate this show.

1st Everybody is different and the idea of 4 women judging each other is so strange to me, since everyone has different tastes and wants different things for the weddings

2nd they put a 20 thousand dollar wedding on the same show with a 100 thousand dollar wedding. I think that is awful!

Personally I am staying within a modest budget of 25 thou (yes for 220 people, and yes it is possible) and I am so sick of hearing that it isn't. Cut corners and negotiate and you can have a gorgeous and fun wedding for less than a house.

Anyway, I love seeing the weddings (I get so many good ideas) but I think it's so unfair that they put big budget weddings aginst small budget weddings - it's like comparing the big apple circus to a sideshow.

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Posted by bridetobesteph

So, I love this show, but I hate this show.

1st Everybody is different and the idea of 4 women judging each other is so strange to me, since everyone has different tastes and wants different things for the weddings

2nd they put a 20 thousand dollar wedding on the same show with a 100 thousand dollar wedding. I think that is awful!

Personally I am staying within a modest budget of 25 thou (yes for 220 people, and yes it is possible) and I am so sick of hearing that it isn't. Cut corners and negotiate and you can have a gorgeous and fun wedding for less than a house.

Anyway, I love seeing the weddings (I get so many good ideas) but I think it's so unfair that they put big budget weddings aginst small budget weddings - it's like comparing the big apple circus to a sideshow.

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I agree, I don't like when they do that. Which episode were you watching? Cause the one from Friday I was like DUH, the woman who spent $150K in Atlantic City is going to win!
I feel like everytime IW atch that show, the scheme is a little different from last time. Like, they can't perfect the formula.
But I have seen episodes where the weddings were all comparable in price and quality. Those are more fun.

every time i watch this show ( i missed fridays episode) all the wedding are around the same price range.

like 2 weeks ago they had one where there was this one hippie girl who got married in the sand and had pizza for her wedding under a tent for like 10K then the next girl got married on a tuesday and there wasn't alot of food either but it was at a lounge her boss paid for and it was like $15K and the most expensive was like $30K

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Posted by Moonmist09

every time i watch this show ( i missed fridays episode) all the wedding are around the same price range.

like 2 weeks ago they had one where there was this one hippie girl who got married in the sand and had pizza for her wedding under a tent for like 10K then the next girl got married on a tuesday and there wasn't alot of food either but it was at a lounge her boss paid for and it was like $15K and the most expensive was like $30K

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Yeah, that's the other one I was thinking of where they were all comparable

But this time, they had a girl from Queens with a 20K budget and a health care exec from Manhattan who had her wedding in AC and spent $150K.

And SHE won the honeymoon MEanwhile, it's her second marriage, her DH is 52 and she's 39, all with grown kids... pay for your own damn honeymoon. Like I said before, she could have spent $120K, had a ridiculous wedding in AC and still had a crazy honeymoon.

At least they could have found other expensive weddings to put with hers... but I think they do it by geographic area, and all of these were near Philly.

I dont like the show- it's like my biggest nightmare-

someone judging my wedding

i want people to be there to celebrate how i found the love of my life

not discussing what they thing of my flower arrangements!

I refuse to watch that show or any wedding show where I have difficult relating to the characters...Like Platinum Weddings...

It reminds me of that show 'Lifestyles of the Rich and Famous' w/ Robin Leach..seriously.why ogle something you can't have? I have better things to do w/ my time than enviously watch someone rich bride throw a million dollar wedding! (shakes head)

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Posted by LauraluvsSean

I refuse to watch that show or any wedding show where I have difficult relating to the characters...Like Platinum Weddings...

It reminds me of that show 'Lifestyles of the Rich and Famous' w/ Robin Leach..seriously.why ogle something you can't have? I have better things to do w/ my time than enviously watch someone rich bride throw a million dollar wedding! (shakes head)

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So true! Platinum Weddings makes me shake my head sometimes... Although for the most part it's the brides jewelry that makes everything so damn expensive...

Not that i would say not to half a mil worth of jewels... Im just sayin'

so true, I like watching weddings (yes I get ideas) because I get excited. My family acts like this is no big deal and my FH's older sister got engaged a year after us and set her date 2 months before ours and his family asked us to move our date to make it less stressfull for them, meanwhile we had our date 6 months before her. yeah. so me watching wedding shows lets me celebrate with myself haha

but this one I feel like it started off with women who just needed the money for a honeymoon and liked going to weddings, now they have recruited really bitchy women that aren't afarid to use words like tacky which I just find mean.

I think every wedding is beautiful, weather its beer and a bbq after townhall or in a villa in Italy, two people willing to share their lives together to me is a gorgeous thing.

I think they should make a show where they give people huge 50th aniversary parties, that is deserving of a show! or a show that gives older couples who had low key affairs big parties for their families (like a vow renewal)

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Posted by bridetobesteph

so true, I like watching weddings (yes I get ideas) because I get excited. My family acts like this is no big deal and my FH's older sister got engaged a year after us and set her date 2 months before ours and his family asked us to move our date to make it less stressfull for them, meanwhile we had our date 6 months before her. yeah. so me watching wedding shows lets me celebrate with myself haha

but this one I feel like it started off with women who just needed the money for a honeymoon and liked going to weddings, now they have recruited really bitchy women that aren't afarid to use words like tacky which I just find mean.

I think every wedding is beautiful, weather its beer and a bbq after townhall or in a villa in Italy, two people willing to share their lives together to me is a gorgeous thing.

I think they should make a show where they give people huge 50th aniversary parties, that is deserving of a show! or a show that gives older couples who had low key affairs big parties for their families (like a vow renewal)

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Aww you're a sweetheart... I like the idea of a 50th anniversary party :)