and we have 60 cards still floating around!!! Thats 120 people un limbo right now!!! I'm starting to doubt that we are going to make our 200 min! lol
Maria31
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If it makes you feel any better... we still have RSVPs missing and my wedding is on Saturday!!!! We can't get in touch with them so they are a BIG FAT NO! If they show and they don't have a seat, it's their own damn fault! lol
RadiantBride
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Awww most people wait until the absolute last minute to send them. You should get the bulk of those missing responses from now until a week after your deadline date. After that start calling.
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yeah, i made my RSVP date earlier than suggested because i KNOW people won't get back to me in time. I'm already getting frustrated that people won't respond and I've still got 2 months before the wedding. lol. I just don't get why it's difficult to check a box and send in an already stamped envelope. People are stupid.
bluekat16
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UGH...hopefully they will start sending their responses soon!
MrsHtobe
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Mine is Friday, and over the past 4 mail days, I've gotten like 20 response cards back. They will start rolling in soon!
JTsGal829
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if it helps.. i have 3 days left and we are currently at 94 yes and 33 no.. so that's 127 ppl out of 203!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! that's 76 or so outstanding people with 3 days til the cut off!!!! most of these people said they were coming.. and some of those ppl wrote back with no responses now.. but the rest haven't sent in at all!!
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dont feel bad i am 7 days passed my RSVP date and i still have about 50 responses i am waiting for
FH and I have given the job to the parentals to make the phone calls to the family. We already busted some of our friends chops for them...
I do not understand how hard it is to check off if ur busy or not and how many of you are coming..... we make it so easy for people.... what do they want us to do, hand deliever each invite and ask them right there and then?!
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Posted by FinallyEngaged
dont feel bad i am 7 days passed my RSVP date and i still have about 50 responses i am waiting for
FH and I have given the job to the parentals to make the phone calls to the family. We already busted some of our friends chops for them...
I do not understand how hard it is to check off if ur busy or not and how many of you are coming..... we make it so easy for people.... what do they want us to do, hand deliever each invite and ask them right there and then?!
We are going to do the same thing!! The parental units are in charge of our families and their friends. We are going to handle our friends!
we just got 4 cards today: 2 yes and 3 no.
GinaZ
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they will start pouring in this week!!! People like to wait for some reason...
anneandchris
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We are two weeks past and just got the last one yesterday.
A few people verbally responded so we know we will never see their card. We have two couples that are up in Limbo but we knew that about them so we have a spot saved for them but will not include them in our final count. If they make it great -- if they don't then no problems either!
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Here is what I noticed. All of the last minute people to RSVP were pretty much no. I guess they felt dumb to say no right away? I mean what the heck? I don't care, we thought we needed 120 and we only need 100, now my mom is wishing we didn't have 110. Ha ha!
twin0877
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Wow! thats alot - u should call them....im sure u will make your minimum, some people are just lazy to send the cards back....
good luck
Kricket212
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My date is the 12th.......and we are missing a handful also. UGH!
I also can't believe how many people said no. I guess it's the econmy right now...people are scared.
CC11208
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We're still missing a few....... and our RSVP date was October 1st!!!!!!!!
Didn't help to see an EMPTY mailbox when I got home from work today either!!!!!
Wifeynella
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2 more cards came today, 5 yes!
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Posted by RockysGirl
yeah, i made my RSVP date earlier than suggested because i KNOW people won't get back to me in time. I'm already getting frustrated that people won't respond and I've still got 2 months before the wedding. lol. I just don't get why it's difficult to check a box and send in an already stamped envelope. People are stupid.
I hate to say it...but I think yours may be delayed because of x-mas & new years....people are not sure what there plans on yet.
I am struggling with thanksgiving & my day is 2 weeks ahead. I would have a b list ready so when you get no's you can send more out.