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8 Wedding Songs to skip

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8 Wedding Songs to Skip
Music is a great way to set the mood for any party, and that's especially true for a wedding reception. Equally important is knowing the songs to avoid, which is why we've created this list of eight tunes to ban from your big day.

We're not saying we don't like these songs (okay ... we don't like the 'Chicken Dance'), but we think it's time to reconsider whether these really are wedding music essentials. Here are eight songs you might want to add to your 'do-not-play list.'

1. 'YMCA' — Village People
Why to Skip It: The fact that everyone knows the words, everyone knows the dance, and that this song fits lots of occasions — between innings at a baseball game, for instance — does not automatically qualify it as a must at your wedding.

2. 'Chicken Dance'
Why to Skip It: At a wedding, everyone's dressed to the nines and feeling festive. Is this really the best time to flap your arms like a chicken in front of that cute bridesmaid/groomsman/new spouse? Didn't think so.

3. 'Stayin' Alive' — Bee Gees
Why to Skip It: There aren't too many people who know more than one line and one dance move to this song — leave 'Stayin' Alive' to the Saturday Night Fever reruns.

4. 'Every Breath You Take' — The Police
Why to Skip It: The Police are legendary, but the tune is a little high school dance-ish, and the line 'Every move you make ... I'll be watching you' is a little stalker-ish.

5. 'Total Eclipse of the Heart' — Bonnie Tyler
Why to Skip It: This song is worth skipping if only to avoid any guest from reenacting the profanity-laced rendition made famous from Will Ferrell's wedding in Old School.

6. 'Macarena' — Los Del Rio
Why to Skip It: You may know how to do the dance — but do you really want to? Besides, everyone has a few certain relatives they'd rather not see get down with that hip swivel move.

7. 'My Heart Will Go On' — Celine Dion
Why to Skip It: We're not passing judgment on Celine Dion, but Titanic propelled this song into the realm of romance cliche. Besides, remember that Leo died in the movie — a bit tragic for a wedding.

8. 'Mony Mony' — Billy Idol
Why to Skip It: Not sure what Billy Idol is singing in this song? Most other people don't know, either, and when that's the case, a good 10 percent of sing-alongers will find a way to say something objectionable.

RitasEngaged Posted:

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Posted by Sandradv121


Posted by RitasEngaged

I love total eclipse



Its has to be the house version though...



oh definatly - it is on my must play list
RitasEngaged Posted:

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Posted by barbtony

They forgot 'Its Raining Men' and 'We Are Family'




I love its raining men too
barbtony Posted:

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You know what else they forgot - the Dollar Dance song.

drivwal Posted:

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I think that 'do not play lists' are totally up to the bride and groom and their taste in music (i love total eclipse house version)

Nina1010 Posted:

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Posted by christine2010

6 of those where already on our do not play list.

i am going to tell the band & dj they are not allowed to take any requests



I'm with you on this....
pjankowski Posted:

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I agree that group dances are horrible....however, they do get people up and guests like them. I plan on giving a short list of group dances that COULD be played if the DJ thinks they are needed. Otherwise, they can keep them off the playlist.

Also, Mony Mony, people love to dance and sing to... probably because no one actually knows what it is about!
mag2010 Posted:

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I hear you!

I am also adding to my do not play list:

Cha-Cha Slide
Electric Slide
Paradise by the Dashboard Light

And this one is the big one that FH and have been bickering about.

House of Pain - Jump Around

I use to like this song until I saw FH and his friends run from corners of a reception hall when the DJ plays this song. FH and his friends love this song! Its their song! These almost 40 year old men jump around on the dance floor together. The next day my FH is in pain after jumping around like an idiot. My fear is one of them will have a stroke or pass out God forbid. I have explained numerous times to FH that he and his boys are not 20 anymore....they are going to be 40!
Roccosgirl Posted:

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I totally want the Cha Cha Slide and Electric Slide too!!

I think they forgot 'love Shack'.
latinaj Posted:

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Posted by Rosalind_75


Posted by RitasEngaged

I love total eclipse



me too!!!!
fh and are requesting that they play the dan band version.
thats the one from old school.lmao



us too!!! lol i want that to be our last song!
pjankowski Posted:

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Well, obviously everyone has their own opinions...I like songs that have meaning to me and FH and our friends too. Maybe you can compromise and have the DJ play a mix and incorporate a piece of Jump Around (not the whole song). Just a suggestion...no one wants a scene at their wedding....totally understandable!

GR2010 Posted:

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Oh wow...LOVE IT. I am finding this article and forwarding it to FH... his mother was so upset when I told her no chicken dance. (She claimed it was a Polish wedding tradition)

DaniandKen2010 Posted:

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Sorry gotta disagree. I LOVE Total Eclipse, Electric Slide or Cha Cha or Cotton Eyed Joe, the Humpty Dance, Mony Mony (I'm that person who sings it inappropriately) but I HATE anything disco. Just not me.

SuzanneK Posted:

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Posted by jcreilly

I agree
plus
cha-cha slide
electric slide
conga line
I don't like any of those dances


Im wiith you.
MarjorieFrank Posted:

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I kinda agree with this!
We are having absolutely no crowd participation songs and no disco music! I am a little concerned about requests so I have to stress my point to my DJ!
Relish21 Posted:

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hot hot hot

Lu2700 Posted:

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Posted by JenBill61210

i love mony mony!!



me too me too!!!
mikendeanna Posted:

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hahahha love it

paprika023 Posted:

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gotta love the humpty dance

AngnShaun Posted:

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Posted by Jenna_and_John

I kind of like some of those! lol



ita...

everyone has their own do not play lists...

Mony Mony, Total Eclipse and Stayin Alive are definitely being played at my wedding
runnerbride1023 Posted:

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Posted by Rosalind_75


Posted by RitasEngaged

I love total eclipse



me too!!!!
fh and are requesting that they play the dan band version.
thats the one from old school.lmao



hahaha I love it only b/c one of my friends sings along to the old school version and it makes me so happy!

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