a bit annoyed

so far I have had no major issues with guest rsvping... until last night. I invited my MOH's parents (who are divorced) and I sent her mom and invite for her (the mother) and the MOH's younger brother since they live in the same house. About 2 wks ago my MOH calls me and asks if her mother could bring her bf, so I say sorry no... I have no space for extra ppl in fact my guest list is already over by 30. So she says well maybe my bro won't go and my mom could take her bf, so I told her that, that would be fine with me. WELL, yesterday I got her moms rsvp card.... it said her name and her son's name and then she checked off the sorry unable to attend line.... but it was one of those checks that were done out of spite, it was long and it was written really hard it creased the inside of the card. Maybe i'm reading too much into it but i'm just annoyed..... ok vent over.

Wouldn't even worry about it!

Man that is a stinker. Sorry you are dealing with this. She should know better since it is common knowledge weddings are expensive. Perhaps you are better off. I've learned people will shock you with their excuses, unwelcomed opinions/comments, rudeness, and sense of entitlement. My advice stick to your guns and don't let anyone guilt you into something you never expected to be doing. Sending you hugs!

Please don't let this ruin your day. If they want to be spiteful, let them. In the end, they are losing out, not you.

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Posted by afrodyt2000

Two less people to worry about so now you're over by 28. People get stupid over weddings.

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Yeah thats what thought about the 28.... Thanks ladies

I know exactly what you mean by 'intentionally checked' Im sorry that people are like that-dont let it bother you!

don't even let it bother you....you can't please everyone all the time and it is YOUR wedding.
She'll get over it.