A break..

sumerbride09 Posted: Oct 08, 2008 01:14 PM

A break..

lately i have been feeling so overwhelmed with everything I finally had a minor breakdown and have had NO desire to get back to any planning or websites or anything.. is that normal? lol. Today is my first day back on LI weddings in a little over 2 weeks and this is the only site i've visited. I dont think its just planning, its the computer in general im trying to stay away for a while.

i think i need a vacation. lol

BeachLovers Posted: Oct 08, 2008 01:20 PM

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I know how you feel. FH and I have been remodeling our home and last month I had a major meltdown, I wanted nothing to do with the wedding or our home, I started apartment shopping!! FH and I did a lot of talking and he's making more decisons now and being more involved. Also, I don't work on wedding stuff every weekend, I pace myself. Don't worry, it will pass!

shell1879 Posted: Oct 08, 2008 01:24 PM

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yes it is normal

everyone needs a break from everything once in a while or you get burnt out

gina409 Posted: Oct 08, 2008 01:27 PM

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i think its totally normal and prob a good thing to take a break for a bit..planning a wedding is very stressful as we all know so i say take some time to relax and when u feel like it get back to the planning one step at a time..hope u feel better

littlepixie12 Posted: Oct 08, 2008 01:27 PM

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yes its totally normal... you should try to get away to somewhere fun, like a mini vacay

FutureMrsMacci Posted: Oct 08, 2008 01:42 PM

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This happened to me also. I used to come onto this site everyday and than all of a sudden I stopped and have not been on in about 2 months. Now I am back, who knows why it happens... I just hope it doesn't happen for the next year

aimerlena01 Posted: Oct 08, 2008 02:04 PM

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It's totally normal!!! I get burnt out often!!

he gives me butterflies Posted: Oct 08, 2008 02:05 PM

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you are soooo not alone. everyone needs a break. all of the planning and ideas and everything that goes along with it is overwhelming. give yourself a break (as long as you need) and when you come back you'll feel the excitedment all over again.

NikkiR515 Posted: Oct 08, 2008 02:11 PM

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I think it is totally normal... I am actually going through the same thing myself. I think everyone needs a break once in a while. It will help you get more excited about planning when you start up again!