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They send invites 6 weeks before. RSVP is about 2 weeks before.
Posted by smplynluv
Hey, it was intended to be a surprise for me lol I don't even know how my mom, sis and fmil arranged it all. I think depending on how many people you'll want there will determine how far in advance to send them and to rsvp them. No more than a month before the day should the rsvp be ( i think for a shower)... sorry, I doubt this was really helpful![]()
My suggestion: stay out of it as much as possible! lol you have enough to worry about for the wedding, let them try to surprise you with some aspects of the shower![]()
Yeah, I hear ya... I just found my shower invites and they put the rsvp date for 3 weeks prior to the shower. My sister thinks they gave the ppl 3-4 weeks to respond.
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The last shower I was involved in, we sent the invites about 6 weeks ahead of time. We included an email on the invites as well as a phone number to RSVP to. It worked really well, having most every invite accounted for with about 10 days until the shower date.
My mom sent them out the last week in February for an April 6th shower. She had no problems getting them back.
mine probably is going to be a simple gathering so my moms going to send them 4-5 weeks ahead of time
