A friend that tries to become friendly with Your Friends..
jessnyc711
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A friend that tries to become friendly with Your Friends..
Okay, I'm a little annoyed! Tell me if this is silly. I'm for my friends getting along and introducing them to each other etc. One big happy friend circle, not an issue, but is there a line out of courtesy that friends should respect? A girlfriend of mine who i've know for quite awhile-she's the type of friend that you can only deal with in doses (Ms. X), during the pre-wedding time when my other girlfriend (Ms. O)was coordinating a girls night out 'bachelorette party' so I gave her Ms. X's contact number to include her etc. Everyone had fun that night and we all hungout and got along. Well I've been through a lot with Ms. X and it's been very up and down with us because she is very demanding and self centered at times. Well, now after the wedding she's emailing my other girlfriend here and there, saying Oh we should all get together and go out etc....How would you feel and is this stupid on my part to be annoyed.
Salason626
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Re: A friend that tries to become friendly with Your Friends..
all of my friends merged after college and i love it - it just takes getting used to. Are Ms X & Ms O both single by any chance?
SeptemberBride03
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It wouldn't bother me. Thats how you make friends post-college when you're no longer in an environment with thousands of people your age looking to become friends with each other.
jessnyc711
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No, Ms. X is kinda single, and Ms. O is in a serious longterm relationship. The situation with Ms. X is this....over the course of 10 yrs since I've known her, she doesn't really have any longterm girlfriends that I know of, she doesn't talk about any of her friends or introduces anyone except random guys that she's dating at the moment. I've been there for her on a number of occasions and include her to my family functions and invite her to a lot of my other friends hangout nights and other social gatherings and then she has the nerve to say she doesn't know if I'm her real friend and I don't call her enough, she even said that she thinks I speak to my other friends more than her....it's all very self-centered, like I have to prove to her that I'm her true friend. It's all very highschool and thats why she's gets on my last nerve at times. I'm just venting....
