So on Sunday my FH tells me that this Saturday we are going out for his moms birthday. Last night he is like he is taking the day off cause his moms bday is at 12:30 i was like WHAT your parents never do anything early, and when it was my bday and i wanted you to take off you wouldnt. So I was really upset that he obviously cares about his mother more than me if he is willing to take off for her bday and not mine. I guess he realized I was upset cause he turns to me and says dont tell anyone this but saturday is your shower act surprise and dress up cause they will be taking pictures of you. *** i was so believing the whole FMIL bday and he blew it......oh so bummed. How do I act surprised now.
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oh that *****! guys just don't get it... i am sorry he ruined the suprise but i am sure that when you walk in and see everyone you will be able to pretend you are surprised very esaily!
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i hope so...... cause they kept it a surprise for so long
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Ugh! That $ucks!! And you were almost there! I would just dress nice, but a smile on your beautiful face and try to act surprised! You don't know where it is going to be right? That's a surprise!! Here are some
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He only said it because he loves you and didn't want you thinking that he loves anyone more than you! The whole time I am reading your post I kept thinking, it's her shower! You will be surprised, when you see everyone and everything!
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thank you so much, well this is that thing. . . hes been telling me that his mom party is at the resturant in queens and the name and when i asked why is it in queens he was like moms friend said it was very good and mom wants to try it then to tell me that its my shower i know everything now just so sad cause im hard to surprise when he asked me to marry him i didnt know how to react so AHHHHH i dunno i want to cry,
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Are you sure the restaurant wasn't part of the trick? Even if it wasn't, he was still trying to save you from being sad or insulted that he would take time off from work for his mom but not you. I'm sorry the surprise was ruined but imagine if he had decided to hurt your feelings in favor of keeping the surprise - you would have been hurt and mad all week! You'll have a great time at your shower no matter what - and now you can buy a new outfit to wear!
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He was trying to make you feel better.
LuckiestGirl
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yea i know but i still. . . lol I love him so much he is great for trying to make me feel better but he could have not told me . . . . . lol
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Don't be bummed. You will still have the rush of excitement when they all yell surprise. It will be easy to fake. And you will still have a great time, only now you get to dress appropriately.
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Posted by LuckiestGirl
So on Sunday my FH tells me that this Saturday we are going out for his moms birthday. Last night he is like he is taking the day off cause his moms bday is at 12:30 i was like WHAT your parents never do anything early, and when it was my bday and i wanted you to take off you wouldnt. So I was really upset that he obviously cares about his mother more than me if he is willing to take off for her bday and not mine. I guess he realized I was upset cause he turns to me and says dont tell anyone this but saturday is your shower act surprise and dress up cause they will be taking pictures of you. *** i was so believing the whole FMIL bday and he blew it......oh so bummed. How do I act surprised now.
awww.. its ok that its not a surprise but make sure u cat surprise. walk in with glasses on so they cant see ur eyes and just open ur mouth and put ur hand over it. thats houls work. lol
sorry the surprised got ruined but at lest ur know ur FH was just trying to do his best to surprise you!
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Aw - he didn't want you to feel bad...I'm sure he didn't mean to make you upset about it. Guys don't understand sometimes. But he probably didn't want you upset on Saturday because you were thinking you were going to celebrate his mom's birthday.
You'll still have a great time! Just practice your surprise face in the mirror a couple of times!
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Just smile and say how surprised you are. Just remember he told you b/c he wants you to know that he loves you soo much that he's taking off for your shower!!!!
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Posted by diva7531
He only said it because he loves you and didn't want you thinking that he loves anyone more than you! The whole time I am reading your post I kept thinking, it's her shower! You will be surprised, when you see everyone and everything!
I said the same thing ~ but he said something because he doesnt want you to think all week he loves his mom more than you.. and doesnt want you mad at him...
LuckiestGirl
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thanks
lilangel
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It ***** but I can understand why he told you. It was either he doesn't tell you which would probably lead to a huge argument on how he is inconsiderate to your birthday and is a momma's boy or tell you that he loves you and the only reason he is taking off is for you and your shower.
Its one of those things where he rather you be upset for the right reason (ruining the surprise) then get in trouble for something that he had no control over you. At least you know he care enough for you to not want to see you hurt or upset.
LuckiestGirl
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That is true. . . he is such a good boy, I find that we have been fighting a lot lately due to that Im so stressed planning the wedding without help from anyone.. And ive asked him to help and he hasnt so i guess he wanted to stay out of the dog house.
