A little sad....need to vent..a bit long
Hello girls...I feel like I need to vent...I think I have been a pretty easy going bride for the most part. I am planning my wedding from out of state, and all but 1 of my BM's live out of state from me. I have only seen my MOH once since I have been engaged (a little over 6 months ago), she lives a long plane ride away, and due to limited vacation time for the wedding, I have not been able to visit her, and she has not been able to come home.
I know my shower is coming up in the next month or 2, so I e-mailed her the other day to see if she would be around for the weekend of my shower, so we would be able to hang out.
She mentioned that she would be in for my shower, but since she would only be in for the weekend, she would want to see her family (her family lives in another state from my shower...about 4 hours away). Now....I totally understand that she would want to see her family, but I just guess that I am a little sad because she is my MOH, and I have not seen her in 6 months. She was home for a week about 6 months ago and her parents have been out to visit her about 3 times since then. I just wish that we would be able to hang out more while she was in town, becuase I know there will be about 50 people at my shower, and I dont think that I will really be able to spend any time with her at it. I also feel that I will proabalby only see her for my batchelorette before my wedding...so sorry, but needed to vent...
am I totally out of line for feeling this way? (I would never say anything to her about it becuase it is her family)
I know my shower is coming up in the next month or 2, so I e-mailed her the other day to see if she would be around for the weekend of my shower, so we would be able to hang out.
She mentioned that she would be in for my shower, but since she would only be in for the weekend, she would want to see her family (her family lives in another state from my shower...about 4 hours away). Now....I totally understand that she would want to see her family, but I just guess that I am a little sad because she is my MOH, and I have not seen her in 6 months. She was home for a week about 6 months ago and her parents have been out to visit her about 3 times since then. I just wish that we would be able to hang out more while she was in town, becuase I know there will be about 50 people at my shower, and I dont think that I will really be able to spend any time with her at it. I also feel that I will proabalby only see her for my batchelorette before my wedding...so sorry, but needed to vent...
am I totally out of line for feeling this way? (I would never say anything to her about it becuase it is her family)