a question to keep the juices flowing

rocketsummer17 Posted: Sep 05, 2008 03:25 PM

a question to keep the juices flowing

So, lets see...
When you and FH fight do you fight fairly? How does he admit he did wrong (bc we know they are ALWAYS wrong lol) and apologize?

barbtony Posted: Sep 05, 2008 03:26 PM

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Define what your opinion of a fair fight is. LOL

amandah75 Posted: Sep 05, 2008 03:33 PM

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I admit I take jabs. I can't help it sometimes. It's a stupid defense mechanism I started using in a past relationship and I haven't controlled it like I should. Even when FH admits fault I sometimes keep things going.....can't help it, I enjoy a rousing fight once in a while. It's so liberating. FH is so laid back so it takes a lot to get him going. He now sees what I do and a lot of the times won't give me the lashing I long for

agapiiiii Posted: Sep 05, 2008 03:35 PM

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My fiance never admits he is wrong, but we fight rarely

christine2010 Posted: Sep 05, 2008 03:56 PM

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we don't fight. early on in our relationship we grew accustum to saying what is on our minds all the time. we pick on each other like a brother/sister would

amandah75 Posted: Sep 05, 2008 04:16 PM

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I've always believed a good fight once in a blue is healthy for a relationship. Sometimes you've just had an awful day and you need a release. FH and I curse each other out and it's fine. I know he loves me and I love him and the make-up sex......we'll just leave it at that

Goldie39 Posted: Sep 05, 2008 04:17 PM

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its really hard to stay mad at each other. Sometimes we'll just bust out laughing or he'll be like, 'i'm sorry, u still love me?' I HATE apologizing or admitting i'm wrong, so it takes a little longer to resolve if I have to apologize..lol

Goldie39 Posted: Sep 05, 2008 04:18 PM

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Posted by amandah75

I've always believed a good fight once in a blue is healthy for a relationship. Sometimes you've just had an awful day and you need a release. FH and I curse each other out and it's fine. I know he loves me and I love him and the make-up sex......we'll just leave it at that

sounds like the weekend I had last week! i totally agree, sometimes u just gotta get those frustrations out..and wake the neighbors..lmao!

grrulz Posted: Sep 05, 2008 04:18 PM

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great question lol!! well at the beginning of our relationship even if i was wrong i would not apologize!! but as the years went by i learned how to say sorry...HE DOES SAY SORRY OR ELSE... lol now it's better we disagree but don't argue or try not to hahaha

T E R I Posted: Sep 05, 2008 04:31 PM

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i think because we don't see each other all the time (only weekends) we don't fight and if i get mad at him it will only last for about 5 minutes

JenBill61210 Posted: Sep 05, 2008 04:40 PM

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Doesn't happen very often, but FH usually gets mad over stupid things. He has a bad temper. Like, his favorite sports team will lose and he'll be pissed, then i'll get mad at him for acting like an @ss for the day. Usually once he calms down though he apologizes.