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a sad story to tell, but hopefully, we can learn from it...

Sandradv121 Posted:

a sad story to tell, but hopefully, we can learn from it...

On Friday Morning, my sister rcvd a phone call that her friend had past away. She was only 18. She struggled many years with her heart, and her last heart transplant failed her. My sister called me from the bathroom of her college, crying and beside herself.

I knew this young girl. She was one of the volunteers for several fashion shows that I headed for the local high school, in which all proceeds went to Ronald McDonald House. She was our inspiration.

She was very vibrant and probably one of the sweetest and kindest people I ever had the opportunity to meet.

I went to her wake tonight, not only to send my remorse to her family and friends , but to extend a shoulder for my sister to cry or lean on. I listened to all the stories, and how they celebrated her life.

On the back of her program was a letter she wrote when she was 11. She had a heart surgery, and she wrote all the postive and wonderful things that can happen for her now. Her optimisitc words were so overwhelming and joyful. She loved life.

Ladies, we need to take a moment and appreciate EVERYTHING positive in our lives. We are all so wrapped up in our lives, we forget to actually live it. Her passing was such a sudden eye opener for me. It made me stop. It made me think. I don't want the negativity to surrond me anymore. And the way she lived, happy, joyful, never down, is how we should be. She appreciated life is so many ways.

Its funny how this is affecting me so much. Maybe because it hit so close to home. But I wanted to share this with you bc we forget to live.

So please, as our weddings are approaching and with all the stress and the drama that may occur... just step back from it, and realize that an amazing thing is happening to you. And everyday just Live.

Sorry for the lecture, but tonight really got to me. And I wanted to share this with my friends...
20mrsc10 Posted:

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every once in awhile something like this happens to me too, and it reminds me the same thing-life is precious and we should all appreciate it
cateydee Posted:

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so sorry to hear this
i was just talking to my family tonight about enjoying the PROCESS!
thanks for sharing
futureMrsJSL Posted:

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Thanks for sharing her story. This is a good reminder of whats really important.

FallBride2010 Posted:

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So sorry for your loss. Your words are so true. we get so wrapped up in small things and forget to just live and enjoy life the good around us.

MayBride2010 Posted:

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Extremely well put.

My thoughts and condolences are with you and your sister during this difficult time.

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mariedsgn Posted:

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So sorry to hear about this!
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SummerBride10 Posted:

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Future Mrs H Posted:

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Clover23 Posted:

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I am so sorry for your loss - thank you for sharing that. We all need a reminder sometimes.
MrsDR2010 Posted:

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I'm so sorry for your loss. Thanks for this story!!!!! ITA. We all need to appeciate life.

BriansWifey Posted:

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im so sorry to hear this


but u r right sometimes we need to step back, stop taking life for granted, and live our lives.
soontobecruz Posted:

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So sorry you and your sister are dealing with this. She sounds like an incredibly strong girl and your words are 100% correct.

Thank you I needed this today about something that are FAR LESS important than the story you just told.

We are all here for you, if YOU need a shoulder to lean on.

AngnShaun Posted:

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Summertimegal424 Posted:

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wow brought chills to my body...so sorry for your sister and there family!
drivwal Posted:

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I am so sorry to hear this story. Thankful that you told it though, hopefully it will serve as inspiration for someone to take a step back and really savor this time in their life because it is a wonderful time

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