A shorter QOTD! I aim to please.

I'm scared the most of being sick (both cold/viral and nervous stomach), having my period, getting pink eye, and looking like a wildebeast.

I'm scared for FH the he will have a massive allergy attack day of or in the preceding days that will still be in effect. Or that he gets himself so worked up that he brings it on emotionally.

And then the normal vendors not showing, things going wrong, BM getting blitzed and near the mic, etc.

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Posted by KittyGags

I'm terrified of being a blubbering idiot during the ceremony because I know I'm gonna cry my eyes out...someone pass the xanax.

I look like some sort of blotchy wildebeest when i cry so I really need to BREATHE and try to avoid it. The priest was asking how to address my deceased father and I started to cry THERE. I'm so scared!

Also scared of not having enough food...someone told me they went to a wedding at the Atlantica and left starving and my place is owned by them...so i'm also scared of that.

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OMG I didn't even see your post, what are the odds of two people saying wildebeast?

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i hope i can pull off the whole bride look..as shallow as it sounds i want to look good..being a tomboy i really hope i can pull off the whole makeup/dress/hair thing

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You are going to look beautiful! Dont worry about that!

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well i guess that money i gave u is finally kicking in..thanks sweetie

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You will look great! A tomboy wedding is the BEST! It's like the ultimate makeover movie, but in real life! YOU WILL BE STUNNING!

I think if Aunt Flo showed up, I'd be pissed!! usually i'm cranky and moody when I get it, a real B*tch, not very bridely :)
And losing weight is driving me crazy!! Every time I eat an egg, I think of your post that cracked me up yesteday :)

Well after my breakdown last night about my weight, I think that is my concern right now. I think that I will not lose enough weight that I want to and that will cause me to be upset with myself... Im sad about this
I have to stop being a lazy a s s and get in gear... inspiration is necessary!!

Also I am nervous about oulling it all together.

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im also freaking about the food. Since my wedding is 100% vegetarian i fear that people will be upset about this. 90% of me says...suck it up, its one day and something thats very VERY important to me and FH. I know the food will be incredible...i just dont want to hear people grumbling that theres no steaks or lobster tail

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That would bother me, sorry --but I'm a meatatarian. If I'm having vegetarian options at my wedding even though I'm not a veg, i would expect the mutual respect...

I mean, I get it, I'm just saying...

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It's a lot different though because its not like meat eaters dont eat vegetables and starches and pasta, etc. As vegetarians we believe that eating meat is wrong and will not put a hold on our moral standards for a day so people can eat a steak at my wedding. Just saying.

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I truly admire your ability to be a vegetarian. I love animals, however, I could NEVER do this. I really do appreciate what it takes to stick to this kind of thing. And it is YOUR day, and this is a perfect example of it. It's kind of like a Kosher wedding, I guess. If the couple keeps Kosher, they're not going to put out a bunch of shrimp, etc. As long as there's decent pasta, everyone should be fine. If they're coming to the wedding for the free steak and lobster, then who cares if they're happy anyway?

That being said, I would sneak in a beef jerky and not tell you.

Actually, out of respect, I'd eat it in my car.

Only kidding on both. I hate beef jerky, and I can't eat in my car, because my car is gross, and the last place anyone wants to eat.

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Posted by gbarreca

I think if Aunt Flo showed up, I'd be pissed!! usually i'm cranky and moody when I get it, a real B*tch, not very bridely :)
And losing weight is driving me crazy!! Every time I eat an egg, I think of your post that cracked me up yesteday :)

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My face blows up to twice it's normal size a few days before, and a few days during. Considering my head is already the size of a small planet, the facial bloat I could do without.

And EGGS ARE IT!!!!

I'm on two so far today!! How about you??? I'm all over the hard boiled.

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Posted by VeggieBride

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Posted by KittyGags

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Posted by VeggieBride

im also freaking about the food. Since my wedding is 100% vegetarian i fear that people will be upset about this. 90% of me says...suck it up, its one day and something thats very VERY important to me and FH. I know the food will be incredible...i just dont want to hear people grumbling that theres no steaks or lobster tail

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That would bother me, sorry --but I'm a meatatarian. If I'm having vegetarian options at my wedding even though I'm not a veg, i would expect the mutual respect...

I mean, I get it, I'm just saying...

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It's a lot different though because its not like meat eaters dont eat vegetables and starches and pasta, etc. As vegetarians we believe that eating meat is wrong and will not put a hold on our moral standards for a day so people can eat a steak at my wedding. Just saying.

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I truly admire your ability to be a vegetarian. I love animals, however, I could NEVER do this. I really do appreciate what it takes to stick to this kind of thing. And it is YOUR day, and this is a perfect example of it. It's kind of like a Kosher wedding, I guess. If the couple keeps Kosher, they're not going to put out a bunch of shrimp, etc. As long as there's decent pasta, everyone should be fine. If they're coming to the wedding for the free steak and lobster, then who cares if they're happy anyway?

That being said, I would sneak in a beef jerky and not tell you.

Actually, out of respect, I'd eat it in my car.

Only kidding on both. I hate beef jerky, and I can't eat in my car, because my car is gross, and the last place anyone wants to eat.

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too funny. my mom was like 'well at least theres a ton of fast food restaurants on the road leading to the hall in case anyone wants to eat beforehand'

I was like...gee thanks.

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Posted by VeggieBride

im also freaking about the food. Since my wedding is 100% vegetarian i fear that people will be upset about this. 90% of me says...suck it up, its one day and something thats very VERY important to me and FH. I know the food will be incredible...i just dont want to hear people grumbling that theres no steaks or lobster tail

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That would bother me, sorry --but I'm a meatatarian. If I'm having vegetarian options at my wedding even though I'm not a veg, i would expect the mutual respect...

I mean, I get it, I'm just saying...

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It's a lot different though because its not like meat eaters dont eat vegetables and starches and pasta, etc. As vegetarians we believe that eating meat is wrong and will not put a hold on our moral standards for a day so people can eat a steak at my wedding. Just saying.

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I truly admire your ability to be a vegetarian. I love animals, however, I could NEVER do this. I really do appreciate what it takes to stick to this kind of thing. And it is YOUR day, and this is a perfect example of it. It's kind of like a Kosher wedding, I guess. If the couple keeps Kosher, they're not going to put out a bunch of shrimp, etc. As long as there's decent pasta, everyone should be fine. If they're coming to the wedding for the free steak and lobster, then who cares if they're happy anyway?

That being said, I would sneak in a beef jerky and not tell you.

Actually, out of respect, I'd eat it in my car.

Only kidding on both. I hate beef jerky, and I can't eat in my car, because my car is gross, and the last place anyone wants to eat.

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too funny. my mom was like 'well at least theres a ton of fast food restaurants on the road leading to the hall in case anyone wants to eat beforehand'

I was like...gee thanks.

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Are you doing vegan or just vegetarian?

I think I'd be ok with a vegetarian dinner, I love a good eggplant and pasta and salad and veggies and mozz and stuff, and if done right, even the meatiest of meat eaters shouldn't mind. But I can see maybe with a stricter vegan menu people getting antsy.

Now I want a portabella, ugh.

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Posted by coldasice217

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Posted by VeggieBride

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Posted by VeggieBride

im also freaking about the food. Since my wedding is 100% vegetarian i fear that people will be upset about this. 90% of me says...suck it up, its one day and something thats very VERY important to me and FH. I know the food will be incredible...i just dont want to hear people grumbling that theres no steaks or lobster tail

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That would bother me, sorry --but I'm a meatatarian. If I'm having vegetarian options at my wedding even though I'm not a veg, i would expect the mutual respect...

I mean, I get it, I'm just saying...

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It's a lot different though because its not like meat eaters dont eat vegetables and starches and pasta, etc. As vegetarians we believe that eating meat is wrong and will not put a hold on our moral standards for a day so people can eat a steak at my wedding. Just saying.

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I truly admire your ability to be a vegetarian. I love animals, however, I could NEVER do this. I really do appreciate what it takes to stick to this kind of thing. And it is YOUR day, and this is a perfect example of it. It's kind of like a Kosher wedding, I guess. If the couple keeps Kosher, they're not going to put out a bunch of shrimp, etc. As long as there's decent pasta, everyone should be fine. If they're coming to the wedding for the free steak and lobster, then who cares if they're happy anyway?

That being said, I would sneak in a beef jerky and not tell you.

Actually, out of respect, I'd eat it in my car.

Only kidding on both. I hate beef jerky, and I can't eat in my car, because my car is gross, and the last place anyone wants to eat.

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too funny. my mom was like 'well at least theres a ton of fast food restaurants on the road leading to the hall in case anyone wants to eat beforehand'

I was like...gee thanks.

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Are you doing vegan or just vegetarian?

I think I'd be ok with a vegetarian dinner, I love a good eggplant and pasta and salad and veggies and mozz and stuff, and if done right, even the meatiest of meat eaters shouldn't mind. But I can see maybe with a stricter vegan menu people getting antsy.

Now I want a portabella, ugh.

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There will be a few vegan options because FH is strict vegan but there will definitely be eggplant rolatinie (i spellled that wrong)....i freakin love cheese.

UTTERHAPPINESS- I know that we all have our own body issues, and if someone is not happy, I need to respect that.

HOWEVER, I just looked at some of your pics. You are GORGEOUS!!! WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT????

How's that for respecting someone's personal issues??

Seriously, please don't fall victim to the thinking that every bone has to show before you are perfect. You are SO thin, that it actually pains me that you have these feelings!! Don't let the MAN get to you (and by the MAN I mean TV, media, advertisers, loser guys, etc.). You are untouchable. You are a beautiful woman, and even though you may feel otherwise sometimes, and I have to respect that, I still respectfully disagree.

I am afraid that I will be bankrupt and my vendors will call the police on me and then I will have to go to jail in my wedding dress .. . where they will give me wonder bread, bad macaroni and cheese and some unidentified meat product while FH dances with some ex-girlfriend at my wedding..

other than that. .. FH's father. .. saying too much drinking too much, forgetting FH's name in the toast

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Posted by VeggieBride

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Posted by VeggieBride

im also freaking about the food. Since my wedding is 100% vegetarian i fear that people will be upset about this. 90% of me says...suck it up, its one day and something thats very VERY important to me and FH. I know the food will be incredible...i just dont want to hear people grumbling that theres no steaks or lobster tail

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That would bother me, sorry --but I'm a meatatarian. If I'm having vegetarian options at my wedding even though I'm not a veg, i would expect the mutual respect...

I mean, I get it, I'm just saying...

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It's a lot different though because its not like meat eaters dont eat vegetables and starches and pasta, etc. As vegetarians we believe that eating meat is wrong and will not put a hold on our moral standards for a day so people can eat a steak at my wedding. Just saying.

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Well thats what I said when I was thinking about this outloud at my desk...its not like its inhumane to pull a carrot out of the ground.

But I do know people that don't eat veggies...esp people with tummy issues. You might have busy bathrooms One of my close guy friends has Crohns and most veggies bother him, plus hes fussy...

Any seafood?

And yes, are you having a cheese bonanza? I'm a cheese enthusiast and I can't wait to eat cheese when I go home tonight now, hahha

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Posted by meara


I am afraid that I will be bankrupt and my vendors will call the police on me and then I will have to go to jail in my wedding dress .. . where they will give me wonder bread, bad macaroni and cheese and some unidentified meat product while FH dances with some ex-girlfriend at my wedding..

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Wonder bread. Awesome and mushy and wrong!!

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Posted by KittyGags

I'm a cheese enthusiast

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I don't even know what to say to this. This is so beyond anything they have an emoticon for. Nothing is appropriate.

I suggest we immediately start some kind of cheese enthusiast league where we can get t-shirts that show the world who we are. I feel like I'm already a lifetime member.

Thank you for giving my life's passion a name.

Hello, my name is Suzanne. And I'm a cheese enthusiast too.

I love you now. It will never go away.