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A very close friend of mine....

KD1279 Posted:

A very close friend of mine....

Is in a bit of a situation (to me anyway)
Her boyfriend and close friend of mine well neighbor are dating for about 3 years, they are fun to be around, very close, 'the perfect couple'

Know my gf knows that he gets playboys sent to the home (no big deal to some) But I came over the house yesterday and saw 2 pornos, know I know this girl and she is expecting to move in and perhaps may know about this and its fun for there play time, would you be cool with that.
She tells me alot, more than I need to know sometimes.

I wouldnt like it, you???If If cant be the center of hotness to my BF/FH thats not cool with me.
JMO, but interested in yours.
vmystique33 Posted:

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I dont like any of that stuf in my house a friend of fh thought it would be funny to buy one and i flipped a s**t call me insecure but i dont like thm
JMO
Elise&Matt Posted:

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I'm kool with it.... FH & I are on the same page when it comes to this stuff....we r both freeky
KD1279 Posted:

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Posted by Elise&Matt

I'm kool with it.... FH & I are on the same page when it comes to this stuff....we r both freeky


I really wish I could be okay with that, good for you
bettybcafe Posted:

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Hmmm..this is a tough one. I wouldnt want him to have a collection of magazines and porns..but a few wouldnt bother me..especially if we watch them together
Trishthedish Posted:

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I'm okay with this stuff. It does not bother me whatsoever.

D's Girl Posted:

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Honestly, It would not bother me at all

I personally do not think there is anything wrong with it. May not be for everyone, but to each it's own
Mateo2be Posted:

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Posted by Trishthedish

I'm okay with this stuff. It does not bother me whatsoever.


same here
TnOiOnL Posted:

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I feel the same as u kris. I personally reaaaaally hate the pornos and mags.. im not cool with it. Luckily my FH isnt into it.. he was done with that around the age of 19 or 20.. Hes now 27 and all he needs is me
EverlovingEv Posted:

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No big deal for me. FI has videos and i'm sure uses them when i'm not around and that's totally cool with me. We 'use' them together sometimes and I love it! I think it only becomes a prob when the videos replace human contact.
woobie113007 Posted:

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Me too...Im totally okay with it.
kitty1224 Posted:

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I do not make an issue about it, I understand thats why guys do, its not about us. I look at porn myself when FH is away or we watch it together sometime.

EverlovingEv Posted:

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Posted by woobie113007

Me too...Im totally okay with it.



Don't be blushin lady! I have a very healthy sexual appetite and (maybe I shouldn't be posting this on a public forum....ok, won't continue this anymore)
SAMORY Posted:

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Let her know how you feel!

Mateo2be Posted:

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Posted by EverlovingEv


Posted by woobie113007

Me too...Im totally okay with it.



Don't be blushin lady! I have a very healthy sexual appetite and (maybe I shouldn't be posting this on a public forum....ok, won't continue this anymore)


EverlovingEv Posted:

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Posted by Mateo2be


Posted by EverlovingEv


Posted by woobie113007

Me too...Im totally okay with it.



Don't be blushin lady! I have a very healthy sexual appetite and (maybe I shouldn't be posting this on a public forum....ok, won't continue this anymore)





It true. I just started writing this whole long thing about what I like to do etc....and then realized that would be a HUGE mistake!
Mateo2be Posted:

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Posted by EverlovingEv


Posted by Mateo2be


Posted by EverlovingEv


Posted by woobie113007

Me too...Im totally okay with it.



Don't be blushin lady! I have a very healthy sexual appetite and (maybe I shouldn't be posting this on a public forum....ok, won't continue this anymore)





It true. I just started writing this whole long thing about what I like to do etc....and then realized that would be a HUGE mistake!



We'll at least you realized before you hit post reply.
iamvocal72 Posted:

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I'm cool with it too. Unless you have some reason to think that your FH/DH is using it in place of pleasing YOU I wouldn't throw a fit about it. I personally don't understand the big deal. Adult films and Adult stores are really a lot of fun when you go and look and learn together. It has helped me to open up, ask questions and learn techniques that I would otherwise never have an opportunity to learn.

I have met WAY TOO MANY women that have never had an orgasam, don't know how to have one and don't/won't pleasure themselves. Maybe it's just me but I think those women are missing out. Porn does not have to be dirty and gross - it can be really sensual and fun. Playboy is the classiest of all the adult mags and while I wouldn't leave it on the coffee table I have enjoyed looking through it myself.

Now don't get me wrong, there is the dark side to all this stuff - the ultra kinky and the gross - but it just reminds me that the human mind is a crazy place and different things excite different people. I find it disturbing yet fascinating that people get excited over so many different things...

We are all so quick to judge. Why do we do that? It's a shame that we decide something is terrible and negative without even exploring it.

SeptBride70 Posted:

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I don't really know how I feel about it.

Vinny is a strange one... he is not interested in that stuff for some reason I'm sure if he were to be passing through the stations and saw it he would stop for a minute and be like 'whoa, that is NOT a G rated movie' lol like any normal person- and I do the same thing.

But, he does not have any mags, would never buy a movie-- nothing of that nature. Not that he is 'against' it- just doesn't cross his mind... And I'm the same way. It's weird, we just don't really do that... We prefer each other I guess??
EverlovingEv Posted:

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Posted by MrsDaniRella

I don't really know how I feel about it.

Vinny is a strange one... he is not interested in that stuff for some reason I'm sure if he were to be passing through the stations and saw it he would stop for a minute and be like 'whoa, that is NOT a G rated movie' lol like any normal person- and I do the same thing.

But, he does not have any mags, would never buy a movie-- nothing of that nature. Not that he is 'against' it- just doesn't cross his mind... And I'm the same way. It's weird, we just don't really do that... We prefer each other I guess??



It's not a preference thing for us and it's definitely not instead of - it's always in addtion to.

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