A weird question I gotta ask...

piyopika Posted: May 21, 2005 10:01 AM

A weird question I gotta ask...

I am thinking about looking for a new job, not sure when will happen, but it should happen before the wedding....

now.. my very weird question is.. I have a few people from work now that I would like to invite... I want to send out my STDs now... but if so happens I get a new job later on... Should I still invite these people from work to the wedding? It might be weird, considering two of the people I want to invite are my managers, and if I do happen to have a new job, I am not sure if they would be bitter about me leaving..... so should I even send them a STD now? I want to leave myself some wiggle room if later on I am no long at this job and I might not feel comfortable inviting them anymore.

Sorry if I sound confusing, I feel like I am just rambling on....

Miro127 Posted: May 21, 2005 10:03 AM

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i wouldn't send them an STD.
just don't tell them you're sending them out and you can always still invite them if you don't change jobs!

suven Posted: May 21, 2005 10:03 AM

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Don't send STD's to coworkers. You never know what may happen. What if you stay, but one of your managers leaves?

Mrs. dleeny Posted: May 21, 2005 10:03 AM

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IMO, don't send the STD's to anyone unless you're 100% sure you're inviting them.

katieshope Posted: May 21, 2005 10:07 AM

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I was in the same situation, I just didn't send my co-workers a STD. But now my problem is, I got a new job (teaching in a different county) So I decided I am not going to invite them, but my invites go out at the end of this month!! And I still work until June 13th!! I know most likely I'll never see these people again but its so hard not to talk about wedding stuff at work!!

Backinneyork Posted: May 21, 2005 10:12 AM

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Posted by dleeny

IMO, don't send the STD's to anyone unless you're 100% sure you're inviting them.

Ditto! I a couple to some people I changed my mind about, but now I have to invite them!

WedHead Posted: May 21, 2005 11:14 AM

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I agree - don't send them STDs. I sent STDs because I was excited and they were cute, but in retrospect, I now realize FH doesn't stay in touch with some of the 'friends' he had me send the STDs to. My only hope is, that since they've lost touch, they may not accept the invitation.

cjik Posted: May 21, 2005 11:27 AM

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Unless you are friends with them, I wouldn't send an STD. You can always invite them later on if they are not bitter about you leaving, and you still want them to attend.

pschica Posted: May 21, 2005 11:59 AM

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i would skip sending any 'maybe' people an std...they'll never know!

nferrandi Posted: May 21, 2005 02:55 PM

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Don't worry about sending them an STD, especially since it's not like your wedding is on a holiday weekend and none of them would need to worry about making travel arrangements.

DottieMcHugh Posted: May 21, 2005 04:12 PM

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I wouldnt send it. I had this happen to me. I left my old job 4 months before my wedding. I never made STD's so I didn't have to worry about that. I invited 3 people from my old job only because I developed a somewhat personal relationship with 2 of them, and 1 has since become my friend.

If you are hesitant I wouldn'y do it. You can always invite them later on. This way you don't feel obligated to.

conigs25 Posted: May 21, 2005 05:30 PM

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Hold off on sending work people STDs. Youll get yourself caught in a situation that you might not wanna be in later. Thats what Im doing

06NovBride Posted: May 21, 2005 05:39 PM

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I wouldn't send them out to coworkers. Who knows what will happen between now and then. If you are still there or still friendly when you are sending out your invitations then decide if you are going to invite them.

piyopika Posted: May 21, 2005 07:49 PM

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The reason why I was so concerned is because I really would like my managers at my wedding, I have a great relationship with them now, but who knows how they would feel IF I decide to leave and I don't want any awkwardness at the wedding.

Will hold off the STDs for work people. Thanks for the advice!!