About the FOCCUS Test-My comments

Well, we took the test last night and it was ok. It was what I expected but then not what I expected. Some of the questions just did not apply to us, and some I cannot imagine anyone answering 'agree' to, even if they did! As someone mentioned you can answer the way the church would want you to. Pretty easy to figure out. I do know that Richie is extremely private, and he would answer this way just because he figures it is nobody's business, and I agree. I think the question that shocked me the most was on the cohabitating section where it said something to the effect of: I feel I must provide sex on demand. I think I laughed out loud at that one.
We did have a big laugh on the way home when we realized Richie thought the courtship meant how long we were engaged, and I figured it was our total dating time. His answer: 12 months; mine: 72 months. Ooops! Bet they will question that one!