We have been renovating our house since January, and working on wedding planning for a year and a half.. and as the day gets closer.. I cant help but start to feel like I am about to have a nervous breakdown! I am trying to make appointments to go to the dr. for a pinched nerve in my neck and because I am losing huge amounts of hair its rediculous.. I am affraid I am going bald! I dont know when I can go.. I have my state assessments for my students tomorrow, and I just cant deal with anything anymore.. I feel like I am on the verge of just having a total meltdown... I cannot get myself to calm down... I think I should have skipped the coffee today...
just wanted to put it out there.. makes me feel better to tell someone that i cant handle all the stress.. because i am too proud to tell anyone else.. except for FH.. of course..
Kimbalina
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Sounds like you need a breather! Relax and breathe!! There are a lot of things on your plate right now and the stress is going to bring you down! Go to the doctors and calm your nerves! You are doing a great job juggling everything!
cherish83
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Take a deep breath. Maybe this weekend you should do nothing for the house or wedding and just RELAX. Do something just you and your FH.
I am losing hair as well and have gotten really dry scalp. I am going to the dermatologist this week because of it. It could all be due to stress. It'll all be over soon though. Hang in there
TrueLoveIn2008
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I am so sorry you are going though this. Can you make an appt. for after school on Tues or before school on Wed? Is it possible for you to come to work a little late one day later in the week?
I kinda know how you feel. I don't have a house being remodeled or a pinched nerve, but I do have a wreck of a house and a yard (we rent but the yard is pretty much all ours) and no time to clean it at all. Laundry piling up everywhere (I got a chance to do it but not fold it or put it away) and a dog that for some reason, after 4 years of being housetrained, has started peeing in the house. I need a day off just to make a dent in all of it, but cannot take any days really until the wedding.
to you and I hope you are feeling better soon.
yelley77
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take a step back and breathe!!! You have a lot going on. Just don't lose sight of why you have all of this going on and you'll be ok!
MrsJ08
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Just think that you are not alone...and a lot of brides can relate to you 100%...this whole wedding process alone is overwhelming then being a home owner on top of that.Do whats priority first, and the get the big stuff out of the way. That way you wont have much to stress about. It will all be ok!! Just take it day by day and BREATHE!!
staceycostigan
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Good thing this weekend is my bachelorette party!!! Good news is I got a drs. appointment for Wednesday... so Ill keep you all updated... I think I need a mental health day!!!
GinaBambina08
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I think you should take a day or two to just step away from anything that you could...I know it might seem that that's impossible, but it's very necessary...for your health and sanity...you'll feel much better afterwards
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debismom
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Stacey, Debi feels the same way!!!!!!!!!!! You'll be ok, hon!!!!!!!!!! I'm praying for you and Debi!!!!!!!!! Mary MOB
staceycostigan
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Thanks everyone.. I totally agree.. I have been handling eveyrthing so well.. and today.. BAM! It just hit me!!! I think FH and I have to take a weekend for ourselves...
