number one im inviting two girls who i used to work with. now ive met their husbands maybe twice in my life but do i need to address the envelope to mr and mrs john smith or an i just do ms. julie smith i know this is probably obvious that i should do the first one but i feel funny since im friends with them and not their husbands...
ok number 2 i am inviting my cousin and her mom and stepfather, my cousin is 16 ---- shes one of my bm. should i send her a seperate invite? i dont want to put plus family because she has 3 step brothers that im not invting HELP
and theres one more what if theres a married couple but they have different last names? ms jane doe and mr john smith what do i do? THANKS LADIES
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Re: addressing envelope - i have 2 problems
Posted by gabbie83
number one im inviting two girls who i used to work with. now ive met their husbands maybe twice in my life but do i need to address the envelope to mr and mrs john smith or an i just do ms. julie smith i know this is probably obvious that i should do the first one but i feel funny since im friends with them and not their husbands...
ok number 2 i am inviting my cousin and her mom and stepfather, my cousin is 16 ---- shes one of my bm. should i send her a seperate invite? i dont want to put plus family because she has 3 step brothers that im not invting HELP
and theres one more what if theres a married couple but they have different last names? ms jane doe and mr john smith what do i do? THANKS LADIES
1. if you are inviting their husbands it should read Mr. and Mrs. John Doe -- they are married doesn't know if you know their husbands or not
2. To avoid confusion and since she is a BM she should get her own. If not then the outer should read Mr. and Mrs John Doe and Sally Doe
3. Two names Mr. John Doe and Mrs. Jane Smith
gabbie83
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Re: addressing envelope - i have 2 problems
thanks im not doing inner envelopes
so if im inviting the whole family husband and wife plus 4 kids i put
Mr and mrs john smith and family
anneandchris
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Re: addressing envelope - i have 2 problems
Posted by gabbie83
thanks im not doing inner envelopes
so if im inviting the whole family husband and wife plus 4 kids i put
ok #1 If you want to only invite the woman you used to work with, then only address the envelope Mrs so-and-so...if you are inviting the couple, then put Mr and Mrs so-and-so
#2 I would send one invite to mr and mrs and another invite to your cousin...that way it is know that the others arent' invited...
#3 I'm not to sure about this one....I had a similar problem, but they weren't married. I just put Mr so-and-so and 'Sandy' I guess if they are married even though she didn't take his name, she would still be a Mrs JOhn Doe so I would address it Mr and Mrs John Doe.
