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addressing envelopes

Bella Laney Posted:

addressing envelopes

I have a question regarding addressing outer envelpes. If my FH and I want to invite someone to bring a guest, can we write 'Ms. ---- & guest' on the outer envelope, or should it be written on the inner envelope?

Jonas9281 Posted:

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outer envelope...nothing should be written on the inner envelope

Almostawife Posted:

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Technically on the inner envelope

You address the outer envelop to the person you are inviting with their address

On the inner envelope you write

Mrs. Jane Doe & Guest

or if children are invited it goes on the inside envelope as well

the only time you put both names on the outer envelope is if two people live together.

That is what i have been reading all about .

Addressing Etiquette
JJC Posted:

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Posted by Jonas9281

outer envelope...nothing should be written on the inner envelope



sorry but this is incorrect.
the outer gets the name of the main person invited...
Ms. Jane Doe

inner get her and guest

Ms. Doe and Guest
mmm117 Posted:

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Posted by JJC


Posted by Jonas9281

outer envelope...nothing should be written on the inner envelope



sorry but this is incorrect.
the outer gets the name of the main person invited...
Ms. Jane Doe

inner get her and guest

Ms. Doe and Guest



I know this is a dumb question but I haven't started the invite process yet....what does everyone mean by outer and inner envelope? I thought there was usually just an outer envelope and inside is the invitation, direction card and a reply card addressed to the bride and groom?? What am I missing? Thanks!
Almostawife Posted:

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there is an outer envelope that gets addressed and then another envelope that names the people who are invited (with guest, children, etc) and everything is put into that envelope.

You don't have to have an inner envelope
mmm117 Posted:

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Posted by StacyJill2009

there is an outer envelope that gets addressed and then another envelope that names the people who are invited (with guest, children, etc) and everything is put into that envelope.

You don't have to have an inner envelope



Thanks! I don't know if I've ever seen that? I proably have and just didn't notice.
BarbieGrl10 Posted:

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Posted by StacyJill2009

Technically on the inner envelope

You address the outer envelop to the person you are inviting with their address

On the inner envelope you write

Mrs. Jane Doe & Guest

or if children are invited it goes on the inside envelope as well

the only time you put both names on the outer envelope is if two people live together.

That is what i have been reading all about .

Addressing Etiquette



Yup.. I agree!
wifetobe Posted:

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Posted by StacyJill2009

Technically on the inner envelope

You address the outer envelop to the person you are inviting with their address

On the inner envelope you write

Mrs. Jane Doe & Guest

or if children are invited it goes on the inside envelope as well

the only time you put both names on the outer envelope is if two people live together.

That is what i have been reading all about .

Addressing Etiquette




Ditto
JJC Posted:

Re: addressing envelopes


Posted by wifetobe


Posted by StacyJill2009

Technically on the inner envelope

You address the outer envelop to the person you are inviting with their address

On the inner envelope you write

Mrs. Jane Doe & Guest

or if children are invited it goes on the inside envelope as well

the only time you put both names on the outer envelope is if two people live together.

That is what i have been reading all about .

Addressing Etiquette




Ditto



yeppers....lol

outer is for the people that live at the address that will be on the outer
KKPK1004 Posted:

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not only that, but singles we were inviting with a guest I inserted a small note asking for name so I could seat properly

I dont like putting Mr John DOe and guest
Almostawife Posted:

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that is nice. I was just really insulted we went to a wedding last sat night and I was listed as guest and this was by FH's family.

They knew we were engaged and living together for over 3 years you think they could have found out my name.
lauralupia Posted:

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I dont think '& Guest' is bad but that's terrible when you are engaged! I honestly believed that you were supposed to put that all on the outer envelope and that's how I've always gotten them. Just goes to show that there is no one set way. My invitation did not come with an inner envelope so I had no choice anyway but to put it on the outside.

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