Addressing Invitations?

HOw would you address the invitaiton would you put:

Mr. & Mrs. J. Smith


Mr. & Mrs. Smith

Mr. & Mrs. John Smith


Also if someone is a widow or divorced is it Mrs. Ms. or Miss.


TIA

I plan on Mr. & Mrs. John Smith

Widowed, I would still use Mrs.

Divorced Ms.

I used:

Married w/ same name:

Mr. and Mrs. Joe Smith

Married w/ different name (in alphabetical order):

Mr. Joe Smith
Mrs. Jane Walker

Widowed

Mrs. Jane Smith

Divorced

Ms. Jane Smith

Living together not married (in alphabetical order)

Mr. Joe Smith
Ms. Jane Walker

Single

Ms. Jane Walker

HTH!!

Mr. and Mrs. John Smith


Divorced use Ms.

Miss is used for young girls (i.e. under 18)

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Posted by Tommylove

I plan on Mr. & Mrs. John Smith

Widowed, I would still use Mrs.

Divorced Ms.

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i used this also.

divorced/widowed i put Mrs...

I also wrote the man's whole first name on the i invite.
mr. & Mrs. john smith