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addressing invite to divorcing couple?

jaiese Posted:

addressing invite to divorcing couple?

My cousin and her husband are mid-divorce. They've been back and forth for the past 6 months. Do I address the invite to both of them? She's going thru a hard time, I don't want to offend her! TIA!!

Colette Posted:

Re: addressing invite to divorcing couple?

Yikes! Thats a really tough one!! Do you think she'd bring him? I tend to think she wouldn't, but some divorcing couples are 'friendly'... If you're close can you call her and see what her preference is??? Or do you have a family member, maybe her parents, who can advise you?
jaiese Posted:

Re: addressing invite to divorcing couple?

I don't think he'd come, but she and I haven't spoken about it, so I don't want to just drop him from the invite, you know?

Colette Posted:

Re: addressing invite to divorcing couple?

hmmm How do you feel about... if they are separated (living in separate homes) you send it to her only.
If they are still co-habitating then address to both?

Not a great solution but if you're really concerned i'd talk to either her or someone in her family for advice.

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