Addressing the invites!

Stumbled upon an invitation etiquette webpage and I was blown away by all the rules: http://print.marthastewart.com/etiquetteguide/


Anyone following the rules, particularly those with more formal invites? And writing a full list of names on the inner envelope? I don't even know half the names or ages of FH's cousins' children! Can I just cop out with 'Mr. and Mrs. XXXXX and Family?'

I plan on doing Mr. & Mrs X & Family for those with young children. For older children living at home (I guess over 18) will have their name on the inside envelope.

Man, my hands are going to be cramping up if I decide to write the outside envelopes too.

would love to know how to address this one:

female rabbi
husband
3 kids, 2 over 18 years old.