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Adressing invites?

jax1023 Posted:

Adressing invites?

So, I'm inviting my boss. My boss is a married woman, but I have never met her husband. Its feels weird to address the invite to mr. and mrs. Bob Gxxxx

Any ideas? I was think mr and mrs. Bob and Jane Gxxxx
NowAndForever2012 Posted:

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I think it should be Mr. And Mrs. Bob xx. But remember it is your day. What ever makes you happy. Plus who keeps the envelope.

tricia3381 Posted:

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i agree put mr and mrs.

TLC1018 Posted:

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I addressed it as MR and MRS XXXX XXXX.

angelosgirl Posted:

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Yes since you know the wife your boss I would do Mr. and Mrs. Jack and Diane Smith. That would be good.

PegaLega Posted:

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As weird as it is that is the expected, I dont know if I would put both of their first names, seems casual to me. But as someone else said, its *****************!

PegaLega Posted:

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Posted by PegaLega

As weird as it is that is the expected, I dont know if I would put both of their first names, seems casual to me. But as someone else said, its *****************!


Weird
AeroJenn Posted:

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According to ettiquette, whether or not you know both people, it should still be addressed as:

Mr. and Mrs. John Doe
bettybcafe Posted:

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Posted by BRIDE2K7

I think it should be Mr. And Mrs. Bob xx. But remember it is your day. What ever makes you happy. Plus who keeps the envelope.
I agree, however, you do it however you want..its ur wedding.
MrsQ-in2007 Posted:

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Personally I dislike the Mr. & Mrs. Bob Smith ettiquette. We will be doing the following because technically it's correct and gives the woman her own identity - I would not be thrilled to get an invite with Mr. & Mrs. Bob Smith on it, so I won't be sending these out.

We're doing: Mr. and Mrs. Bob and Jane Smith
Princess Cut Bride Posted:

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In one of the Wedding Planner's I have it says the outter envelop should be addressed Mr. & Mrs. Bob Smith and in the inner envelop you can be more personal and write

Jane Smith and Bob Smith

HTH

Mrs_C_in_'07 Posted:

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I have a similar situation with one of my former co-workers whom I still talk to, however, I'm still putting Mr. & Mrs. John Smith to be formal.

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