adult only reception

latinaj Posted: Nov 04, 2009 03:54 PM

adult only reception

i know its tacky, i know etiquette is a no no

i get it.. BUT i must SPELL it out in my invites...

where will you add it?

response card?

___ number of adults attending

or

reception card

Adult reception at so and so

barbtony Posted: Nov 04, 2009 03:55 PM

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I'm having my ceremony at the RH and plan to put Adult Reception to Follow after the ceremony info

AngnShaun Posted: Nov 04, 2009 03:56 PM

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i dont think its tacky... or against ettiquite...

but I would put it on the response card... i would put
______ number of adults

* Adult Only Reception*

it wont register for most people that it says number of adults...

RGEC47 Posted: Nov 04, 2009 04:00 PM

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I am actually having personalized response cards...

Mr. & Mrs. Robert Smith
Two seats have been reserved for you at our wedding and reception.

Yes, ___ of us will be attending
___ We are unable to attend

That way they would have to be really BOLD to change the amount of people.

Golden Posted: Nov 04, 2009 04:00 PM

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This is my dilemna too. We put it on our wedding website too thanks for this idea, I will definitely put it on my rsvp cards. I'm praying that since 80% of our guests are OOT, they will adhere and not just bring their kids and then I have no choice...arrgghhh

asg450 Posted: Nov 04, 2009 04:01 PM

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I think for my MOH's wedding she wrote 'Adult Reception to Follow' on the invitation.

latinaj Posted: Nov 04, 2009 04:02 PM

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Posted by RGEC47

I am actually having personalized response cards...

Mr. & Mrs. Robert Smith
Two seats have been reserved for you at our wedding and reception.

Yes, ___ of us will be attending
___ We are unable to attend

That way they would have to be really BOLD to change the amount of people.

my aunt crossed out the '2' we had on her rsvp card for my sisters quinceanera and put '6'

YES 6....can u believe that??????

StaceYums81 Posted: Nov 04, 2009 04:02 PM

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Posted by asg450

I think for my MOH's wedding she wrote 'Adult Reception to Follow' on the invitation.

I agree with this

AngnShaun Posted: Nov 04, 2009 04:03 PM

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Posted by latinaj

Posted by RGEC47

I am actually having personalized response cards...

Mr. & Mrs. Robert Smith
Two seats have been reserved for you at our wedding and reception.

Yes, ___ of us will be attending
___ We are unable to attend

That way they would have to be really BOLD to change the amount of people.

my aunt crossed out the '2' we had on her rsvp card for my sisters quinceanera and put '6'

YES 6....can u believe that??????

wow.... thats balls

RGEC47 Posted: Nov 04, 2009 04:08 PM

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Posted by latinaj

Posted by RGEC47

I am actually having personalized response cards...

Mr. & Mrs. Robert Smith
Two seats have been reserved for you at our wedding and reception.

Yes, ___ of us will be attending
___ We are unable to attend

That way they would have to be really BOLD to change the amount of people.

my aunt crossed out the '2' we had on her rsvp card for my sisters quinceanera and put '6'

YES 6....can u believe that??????

WHAT?!? You know what I would do....call my mother and have her deal with the person. Gotta love moms...

mariedsgn Posted: Nov 04, 2009 04:08 PM

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I'm not putting ___ number attending on my response card

Diana508 Posted: Nov 04, 2009 04:10 PM

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I think any of the suggestions would be appropriate.

I can't believe she crossed it out!

latinaj Posted: Nov 04, 2009 04:12 PM

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my aunt crossed out the '2' we had on her rsvp card for my sisters quinceanera and put '6'

YES 6....can u believe that??????

WHAT?!? You know what I would do....call my mother and have her deal with the person. Gotta love moms...

my mom is not as tough as she should be w/guests... for her its all about the more, the merrier... how about the more, the more sloppy and disorganized it is??? my sisters quinceanera was a nightmare...i had the bm following me around all night... about 15 extra ppl showed up...thx god they provided an extra table.