Advice needed...

Two of my BM's I have known since I was 12.. Both of them are sisters. Now for my engagement party they said they would come and help set up, thankfully my MOH was there and helped me because the sisters decided to show u 20 minutes after my party started. Now' I text messaged the one to tell her that her and her sister need to get measured. No answer... I text her again a few days later... No answer.. I did it one more time and once again no answer... I know thats her number so I'm trying to figure out what to do. I don't know if shes still mad that I left at like 10 at her wedding because my daughter was acting up and I had to take her home. which resulted in me passing out along with her because I was just exhausted from the 2 weddings I had in a row!

I've talked to her since the wedding and got her new address to send the Save the Dates.. Now my problem is what should I do? I have tried to contact her numberous times and have not gotten any response and at this point I'm about to take her and her sister out of my wedding party. Because I just can't be chasing them around to get an answer.

So this was long.

aww i so sorry first off

second i really hate when bms play these games...i mean if u r mad and/or dont want to be involved just tell the bride...and thats exactly the kind of email/voicemail/text u should leave...firm but not mean....just cut to the chase....say im not sure what is going on with us but i really want to straighten this out because i want u in my weddign but i feel like u do not want to be so f i dont not here from u in a week i will take the hint and find someone else

I would call but I'm at work .. And I work at a call center so email is the only way for right now.. i was not expecting a response back so quickly from her.. She has a new phone number so , email was the only way of contact.

I'm just beyond upset right now because I just don't see how someone can wait all this time to bring this up to me. I'm not a shiesty person and I would have given them the money , now that I have it. Before I didn't and she told me the day before the shower that she was informing the girls that they had to pay that amount. Hello' I'm out of work and have rent,electric,food, car,etc. And once again no money !! I don't understand peoples reasoning and I just can't deal with this kind of stuff while planning what is suppose to be one of the happiest times in my life.

UPDATE:: I did another topic about this in error.