Advice on Bridesmaid Attendant Gifts
My bridesmaids have been nothing but AMAZING. Well all except 1 Bridesmaid. After my bridal shower my mom showed me all the pictures of the girls helping and told me how they all the did the planning together blah blah blah. Well apparently this one BM (my cousin) was impossible to get in touch with, never answered the phone when they called, never called back, never answered emails, myspace messages, etc. She didn't help with ANY of the planning, never attended one meeting they had. Although she did financially contribute after pulling teeth. Next was she didn't attend my bachelorette party...AGAIN my MOH told me she was never able to get in touch with her, never answered emails, etc., etc. She was impossible to get in touch with to go get fitted for her dress...and now all the girls need to go pick up their dresses and get them altered (if need be) and sh never calls me back or anything. Every single one of my BM's has asked me if I need any help with anything they'd love to help. She's been in a bunch of weddings so she knows what's entailed. Believe me I don't expect anything from any of my girls, anything that they've done for me is GREATLY appreciated but she has done nothing at all nor has put in any effort to help the other girls when they were doing my bridal shower, and bachelorette party. Now I planned to buy my BM's a very nice gift for all their help...possibly getting them all slightly different gifts but all from the same place/company. I feel like it's not fair to my other girls who went ABOVE and BEYOND what I could have ever expected to get the same gift as her who did absolutely nothing and showed she didn't give to sh*ts. My mom even said to me I hope you're not getting _____ the same gift as all the other girls after all this.
Sorry so long...some advice please.
Sorry so long...some advice please.
