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Advice on invitee...

romameansamor Posted:

Advice on invitee...

I grew up w/ this girl who's father lived next door to me. She would come up from Fla. to stay w/ her dad every summer until we were like 14. Then b/c of high school and college I did not see her much.

She tracked me down about three years ago to invite me to her Florida wedding. I wound up not going b/c I couldn't find a travel buddy and it was too much $ for me. But I thought that was nice of her to think of me.

Now - I haven't really talked to her in a year althought there has been an e-mail back and forth a few times. I visited her last summer to see her new baby. All of the e-mails of mine ended with 'I will give you a call!' but I just never did.

Here it is a month before my wedding and I still have not called her to tell her I was getting married. She is still on my guest list but I never sent the invite b/c I just procrastinated on getting her address etc. I recently received an e-mail telling me of her new e-mail address.

What do I do? I think she will be hurt if I get married and don't even tell her - nonetheless don't invite her! Is it too late to do that (I doubt she would come considering she would have to get a plane and all!) What do I do? I feel like such a rotten person!!!

Advice please!!??
Jackie&Justin Posted:

Re: Advice on invitee...

I def. think you should tell her and invite her....

08/06 Posted:

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I would invite her and give her the option, she too may be happy that you thought of her...

AJsMommy122 Posted:

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What if you email her on her new address telling her.. and say you must have her home address down wrong b/c her invitation was returned to you.
See what she says.

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