Ok i have a situation that i dont know how to handle so I figured let me ask the girls, you guys always have the best answers.
I have a really big BP, 8 BM's, 2 MOH, 1 Matron of honor, FH has 8 GM's, 2 Best Men,
How can I include my brother in all of this? He is my only brother and I want him to play a special part of my big day (his son is the RB). Would 3 Best Men be out of the question???? HELP!!!!
TIA!
DCLM726
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I would make him a GM and have 2 girls walk with one guy.
cherish83
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I would make him a GM or even a 3rd BM. There is no rule as to how many you can have. The BP doesnt have to be even. He is your brother so I think he should have an important role like that in your wedding. If you dont want to add more people to your BP, maybe give him a special reading to do.
Mizzdimple
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MAKE HIM A GM. Have him walk with a girl and a guy.
Ur BP does not need to be equal.
missliss
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I'm confused, why can't he just be a groomsmen? You don't have to have a matching # of ppl. I have 5 BMS, 1 MOH. FH has 9 GM and 1Best Man and 1 Jr. Best Man.
RadiantBride
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Thanks everyone! I was thinking of making him a GM and have him walk with the two Maids of Honors. Would that work??
Then to go into the RH have him walk with the Matron of Honor.
KK Holiday
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I am having my brother and his wife light my unity candle. since our parents are divorced I want a married couple to light our candle and I thought this would be a great way to honor my brother.
you can also ask him to do a reading.
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I would make him a GM and have 2 girls walk with one guy.
i was going to say the exact same thing.
Fall Bride 2008
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I definatley think that if you and your brother are so close that you should have him in the bridal party regardless if he is a groomsman, man of honor (lol) or best man especially since you have such a big party to begin with you dont want him to feel left out and you really want him in the bridal party. Go for it!
Wedding999
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Can you have him do somethings else? Since FH and i only have brothers - and his are his grromsmen - we're having my brothers do the readings and helpout at the ceremony
MrsD71208
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If this helps, my two brothers are both GM for FH....his BM is his BIL. Wow, we really do talk in code on here! LOL
luna bride x
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i would make him a GM.. but if you want your parties to be equal maybe you can have him do a reading?
