advice regarding bp

i know we're all VERY excited when we first get engaged and cant wait to tell the world...

but please...WAIT before you ask anyone to be part of your bp

wait as long as you can girls!

UGHHHH I wish I would of waited but Ive known my bp line up for yearssssssss. I have the same group of very close friends and some family in it.everyone pretty much knew who would be in my wedding before i evern thought of being engaged.The problem is that one of my Best friends has a little addiction problem now and i dont know what to do. Im just kind of waiting and hoping that she will be better by the time w go to buy dresses :( and if shes not HOW WILL I KICK HER OUT??? I Just cant

I've seen some of your posts regarding the craziness that has gone on w/ your BP - oy, just so ridiculous!!!

But thanks for the advice - i hope it all comes together for you!!!!