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shamrock24 Posted:

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OK. I need to know if this is awful...

DH is in his late 30's. He wants a child in the worst way. I am younger and wanted to wait another year or two before ttc. last month my bcp ran out and i didn't refill it, nor did i tell him that i haven't been taking it this month.

I thought I would just go a few months and not say anything. I think it will take us a while and I don't want him to have him hopes up every month.

Do you guys think it's awful if I don't say anything? and just 'test the waters' for a few months?
NovemberSue Posted:

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I would tell him. Just let him know and say 'when it happens, it happens.' I wouldn't want to keep it from him. Its both of your decision together.
shamma Posted:

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I think in your heart of hearts you want to say something. Do what makes you feel comfortable

michele31 Posted:

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I think that a couple should make these decisions together and both be on the same page. I think it is only fair for him to know what you have decided to do.

Claud2001 Posted:

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I think if you need to ask us, than you need to tell hubby!

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