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Advise on BP

NOVIA Posted:

Advise on BP

The FG that i picked can't be in my wedding. My FI niece(2yrs old) would be precious to see as a FG but is she too young. My ring bearer that i already asked is 5yrs old. Will it be ok or is she too young
julz33 Posted:

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You can have any age you want. Just know in advance that being so young she may not cooperate when it is time for walking downm the aisle, pics, etc. My FG was almost 3 and she cired the entire night. Apparently she grew a new tooth that night! And she wouldn't walk down the aisle either. Luckily her dad was a groomsman and he carried her down with him.

catherine Posted:

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I think it is ok. My nephew is going to be 3 - my RB. I am afraid that he will not walk down the aisle but he is going to look sooooooo cute!!!!

littlebookworm4 Posted:

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if she's well behaved i think it should be fine - you can have any age that you want

SomethingBlu Posted:

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It totally depends on the personality. Mine is 6 and is painfully shy, so she can't even walk by herself...but there are some realyl adorable and precocious little girls out there...if she is too shy, have her walk with someone...mine is walking with the RB (her nephew...heehee)

PrincessPeanut Posted:

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My FG is going to turn 2 a month before my wedding and my RB just turned 4. I don't think its too young, it depends on the kid, I guess. But then again- you never know what they might do the day of. My little cousin is a really, really quiet kid and on my cousin's wedding day he walked down that aisle like it was nobody's business and kept asking to do it again.
Dooodles Posted:

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My RB hadn't turned 2 yet, but he put his thumb in this mouth, walked really slow but without any help, he made the treck down the aisle. I think it was the cutest thing ever and my heart melts everytime I see the video!

Bunnymonkey Posted:

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it all depends on how you would react to the possible scenarios created by a child that young at a wedding. There are people that think it is cute when a child cries walking down the aisle, or gets too afraid to do it alone. Of course, they could be perfect and angelic.

I know I would really get stressed in that situation, and it's not what i want for my ceremony, so we decided no kids. It really all depnds on your situation and preferences though.

Good Luck!
jimmysgrl Posted:

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Yea, all of my kids (I'm having 3 RB and 2 FG) are under the age of 4. I expect there to be possible screaming, crying, going the opposite direction and pretty much any other behavior they think would be fun to show, but to me, they are so adorable and I want tehm to be a part of it, that I think it'll be hilarious!

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