Would you be insulted if one of your BMs didn't go to your afterparty? My friend is getting married on a Thursday night and I am in her wedding, but I just don't think I can take Thursday AND Friday off from work (after taking so much time for my wedding and HM). What do you think?
itslaurie.
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you know your friend best, and how she will react.
how would you react if the situation were reversed?
as for me, I wouldn't be offended.
JessicaM.
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Posted by itslaurie.
as for me, I wouldn't be offended.
me either, and I think if she is your friend and has planned her own wedding, she will understand.
JanuaryBride06
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No. Not all of my BMs could make it to mine on Sunday night. I was just thrilled to have two of them there. I would have loved to have another come out, but she just started a new job and she couldn't take Monday off. I completely understood and I'm sure that your friend will, too.
Mrs. Powell
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I would not be offended at all.
seta
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I don't think she has the right to be mad considering it is a thursday night.
LaurenluvsTJ
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no, I would understand.
Katie&Chris2006
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I would think she would understand, especially if you are already taking time from work.
nygirl77
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It is a Thursday night, I doubt she would be offended if you didn't take off on Friday. Or at least, she shouldn't be mad about it.
Preshy7
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i wouldnt care at all
MissingTheBGene
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No, I would understand completely.
SuzBride
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Thanks - yeah I know I wouldn't be insulted if it was my wedding, but I just have a feeling she is gonna be annoyed. UGH I hope not!
JXNOscar
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I would not be offended
ali120206
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My FH and I are joking, I'm not expecting to make the Afterparty he's planning after our reception.
