ahhhh

It's a very sensitive topic, I can imagine. Take it little by little, and maybe you guys can negotiate something that works for both of you.

we get into fights like these as well. This year ours is about going to his family's house for xmas. my parents are divorced so i feel like im all over the place on the holidays. When i told him we have to split the day (again this year) he got upset. but his family doesn't even have anything big!!!! They just eat and go back to 'everyday actives' i.e watching t.v. ughh w t f

sorry i had to vent but I feel your pain

Ughh sorry