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Lu2700 Posted: Jun 29, 2009 07:22 PM

ahhhhh

my fiancee's younger brothers (17 and 22) make me wanna pull out my hair sometimes!

around the dinner table tonight they start talking about FH''s future bachelor party, and they start talking about this one guy who they can't WAIT to invite and party with that night. they're all on the same softball team....this guy isnt even invited to our wedding..... and they wanna invite him to the bachelor party! 'dan...so and so isnt going to be GOING to the bachelor party bc he isnt invited to the WEDDING...it wouldnt be right to have him go to the b-party and not the wedding....' 'sure lucille' ahhhhhh! they just dont GET it! it gets me so frustrated cause ive been through this with them b4 and they just dont get it! i dont want them talking about the b-party to the whole softball team like they're all invited...and then ppl end up getting their feelings hurt.

sooooo frustrating..............

JoanneAndJustin Posted: Jun 29, 2009 07:38 PM

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Your FH will have to set them straight, otherwise they'll just think you're being a big bridezilla...which you aren't, but they're young and stupid.

Have FH lay down the law.

irisheyes23 Posted: Jun 29, 2009 09:59 PM

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My FH is a member of a softball team too and they like to talk about the bachelor party in front of me. My FH is 55 years old and I'm his 2nd marriage...why don't they give that sh*t up already???

Lu2700 Posted: Jun 30, 2009 01:38 PM

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just found out that my FH is a LURKER!!!!! spoke 2 him on the phone and he saw my original post. he wasnt mad tho, he thinks it's funny lolol now i have 2 be careful about what i post. no pics of dresses!!!!!

soontobecruz Posted: Jun 30, 2009 01:44 PM

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Have your FH straighten them out. Sounds like they are just being immature and trouble makers. Stick to your guns your doing nothing wrong

stinenandy2010 Posted: Jun 30, 2009 02:32 PM

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Posted by JoanneAndJustin

Your FH will have to set them straight, otherwise they'll just think you're being a big bridezilla...which you aren't, but they're young and stupid.

Have FH lay down the law.

ita!

2010 Fall Bride Posted: Jun 30, 2009 03:33 PM

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I go through the same thing! FH's brother in law, who is in his early 40's swears that he is going to be in charge of FH's bachelor party!

HELLO!!!!! FH has not 1 but 2 Best men! I think that is there job and I don't think it should be taken away from them! If FH's brother in law wants to be involved and help out! OK but he will have to listen to what the BM's say!!!!

FH's brother in law is friends with his mechanic and told him a while back, 'Get ready! We have a bachelor party to go to!!!' OMG ***! Fh was like I don't Benny the mechanic at my bachelor party! He's not even coming to wedding!!!!

It's crazy how ppl want to make rules about things involving your wedding!

paprika023 Posted: Jun 30, 2009 04:12 PM

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guys think totally different than we do.. for our best man's bachelor party that was a few weeks ago a lot of people who weren't invited to the wedding went.

..for guys a bachelor party may be a way for your FH to have all of his friends (including those that didn't make the guest list) to celebrate with him..

i thought the same you did up until our best man's bachelor party.. but my FH said it was a lot of fun and no one was upset that they weren't invited to the wedding too.