AHHHHHHHH

christy Posted: Mar 15, 2003 08:49 AM

AHHHHHHHH

Is anyone else's FH driving them crazy? Sorry ladies, I just need to vent! I cant take him today, and it is only 8:40 in the morning!

kptoys Posted: Mar 15, 2003 08:50 AM

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Im sorry... kick his a$$ I dont have that problem mine left for work @ 6.

Sassy Posted: Mar 15, 2003 08:50 AM

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christy, don't even worry about him
I know how you feel, my FH gets on my nerve on a regular basis

karenJ Posted: Mar 15, 2003 08:57 AM

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Join the Club. I am giving him a break this entire weekend to do some girlie stuff.

jennbaby Posted: Mar 15, 2003 09:49 AM

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give him a nice kick i agree

christy Posted: Mar 15, 2003 09:53 AM

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Ladies, I am so stressed out, that he really better stay out of my way today! LOL

diamondgirly Posted: Mar 15, 2003 10:02 AM

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LOL I hear ya

shelzyp Posted: Mar 15, 2003 10:39 AM

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My FH really gets under my skin at times, and he does it becasue he loves my reaction when I get mad, becaseu I am so predictable, but then it makes me even more mad, since he is doing it on purpose. Men - ugh!!!

wacky Posted: Mar 15, 2003 11:23 AM

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I hear you, Im leaving with my aunt to go shopping. I dont care what he does today

christy Posted: Mar 15, 2003 11:28 AM

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so glad I'm not alone, you guys always cheer me up! THANKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!

swags1016 Posted: Mar 15, 2003 12:13 PM

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Thank you I thought it was just me! I have wanted to cry everyday for the last two weeks because I cannot take the stress anymore (the planning was so stress-free, March 1st hit and I went to H ELL- I don't know)! He doesn't seem to get the stress and pressure that I am under-- let alone we are coming up on peak time at work! I quit! I want to elope!

WithThisRing Posted: Mar 15, 2003 01:34 PM

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best advice i got from one of the girls on here

Kick him in the shins

JuneBabyBride Posted: Mar 15, 2003 01:40 PM

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Me and my fiance might split up we are starting to have more than wedding planning stress, I don't know what to do!!!

WithThisRing Posted: Mar 15, 2003 01:52 PM

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kaylasparents

whats going on??? I am sure you and him can work things out. dont let $$ and stress cause a split

JuneBabyBride Posted: Mar 15, 2003 01:54 PM

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It's not only the money anymore, when we got back together I told him the only condition is if we go to therapy which he agreed and now he won't and we have other problems that are not going to go away without it, I don't know what to do I told him if we don't go this isn't gonna work and he said oh well then it's not gonna work. He is very stubborn and he doesn't realize his mistakes till it is way to late. I am so upset!!

WithThisRing Posted: Mar 15, 2003 02:03 PM

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OMG! I feel so bad for you. What if he went to therapy first just to see what its about and talk one on one with the therapist. Maybe that will open him up a little.

What about getting away for a weekend just you and him. It may not solve the issues, but its a chance of you and him to get away from here and may rekindle the romance. For example leave the precious one with yours or his parents and you and him make a weekend trip to the pocono's or upstate and use it as yours and his time to talk, unwind, and just concentrate on each other. It may not solve all the problems, but its a time where its you and him and time to spend together. No cell phone, no beeper, no friends, no family, just you and him.

or maybe a nice quiet night at home. Make a nice dinner and some candles and just talk. He needs to see what a wonderful person you are and that he needs to meet you half way for this relationship to stay strong.

JuneBabyBride Posted: Mar 15, 2003 02:08 PM

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We did that 3 weeks after we got engaged b/c were not together when he proposed so we took a weekend cruise and that was the end of january it shouldn't be time for another one one month later. He won't agree to go to the therapy thing, he said I need it b/c I am a physco b/c I yelled at him for getting drunk the other night and crashing into the curb and lying about it, I don't know what to do, he is like jekyle and hyde.

WithThisRing Posted: Mar 15, 2003 02:40 PM

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OMG he got drunk and crashed into the curb and lied about it and he said your psycho....i think he's the one who needs to see that he could have been seriously hurt or could have seriously hurt someone else (I got into a car accident with a drunk driver and I seriously support that those who drink and drive need to be taught a serious lesson)

what if you did go to therapy first to show him you took the initiative and now you and him need to go together.

Did you talk to him why you feel therapy is necessary for the two of you? If he agreed to go when you and him first got back together then I think he should stick to his word.

This may be something you dont want to hear, but what about putting the wedding plans on hold just for a little. Work on building the relationship and then the wedding. Or how about sitting in on a pre cana class. Maybe talk to the person who is marrying you and him if he doesnt want to see a therapist, maybe the person who is doing the ceremony can be of some help.

If you dont want to post this on the public board feel free to FM me