Album help...!!!

Ok..so here we are almost 6 months after our wedding and we just finally sat down and started to 'pick' the pictures we'd like for our album and parents album. The problem is we were told to pick 40 pics for ourselves and 20 for the parents. As you all can imagine..out of almost 1000 pictures...it is VERY hard to only pick 60. We chose 102..LOL!. Now..here is where the help is needed:

1. Is there an order to the pictures that we should pick?

2. Should they tell a story?

3. Do we include pics of the bridal party?

4. If we opt to get a story book album..aren't there more than 40 pictures?

I need help girls..and BAD!!! So please...HELP ME!