Alternative Hour Meltdown
Well I found out that we are NOT having our alternative hour. FH said it would not be the best idea (he originally came up with it!) I know that it was controversial, but to be honest I have been having such trouble getting something that I want.
Ex: 'My reception is too far away,' WE HAVE to get a shuttle for people. My mother expected me to be covered head to toe in fabric because I am overweight. I requested for my bp to get a cocktail length dress , not strapless and in sage green. My moh ( my sister) picked out a gown, strapless and and kelly green! Her and her daughter are my only wedding party. I really didn't expect it to be this difficult. She finally conceded to my request, but not after 2-3 months of stress of me not being able to plan anything because I didn't know what color I was having at MY wedding.
I figured by having this separate hour, my f h and I could have have something we wanted and not offend anyone.
He doesn't want to do it now because he knows that my family will freak. But yet instead he wants to have the SAME music played at the reception (NIne Inch Nails, Drowning Pool, Ramnstein, Rob Zombie). No, that's much better let's have it mixed in with the HOKEY POKEY!!!!!! The family won't have anything to say about that. right?
I understand he wants to make sure that I don't get hurt because my family will NEVER let me live it down. But I have to say I am dissappointed.
Sorry had to vent, I'm just sitting here crying and the ice cream is calling to me.
Ex: 'My reception is too far away,' WE HAVE to get a shuttle for people. My mother expected me to be covered head to toe in fabric because I am overweight. I requested for my bp to get a cocktail length dress , not strapless and in sage green. My moh ( my sister) picked out a gown, strapless and and kelly green! Her and her daughter are my only wedding party. I really didn't expect it to be this difficult. She finally conceded to my request, but not after 2-3 months of stress of me not being able to plan anything because I didn't know what color I was having at MY wedding.
I figured by having this separate hour, my f h and I could have have something we wanted and not offend anyone.
He doesn't want to do it now because he knows that my family will freak. But yet instead he wants to have the SAME music played at the reception (NIne Inch Nails, Drowning Pool, Ramnstein, Rob Zombie). No, that's much better let's have it mixed in with the HOKEY POKEY!!!!!! The family won't have anything to say about that. right?
I understand he wants to make sure that I don't get hurt because my family will NEVER let me live it down. But I have to say I am dissappointed.
Sorry had to vent, I'm just sitting here crying and the ice cream is calling to me.
