am i a bad, bad bride???

sometimes i worry - i love fh very much and all and want to marry him but then i get very nervous over this whole weddign thing coming up - he is so excited - he lights up and can tell you how many more days, etc until our day...i am excited too but also think of all we still have to do!

then just yesterday i was speaking to a friend who is getting married this weekend and planned her wedding in 4 months (no joke! she's kooky!) and despite her dress just coming in friday - i asked her if she was nervous or anythign and she said 'no, i am just so happy i get to marry fh..nothign else matter' and she was so sweet...which made me think i am horrible....

i thin kmaybe it is also b/c of school (i go to grad school f/t) and work (work f/t and work weekends to make wedding $$) but still...i feel so mean - poor fh..what is he getting stuck with foever???

ok, off my soapbox.....thanks for listening!!

Your friend is good - i'm getting married this weekend & altho I'm not nervous about the marriage I have gotten nervous about the details of the day coming together. BUt I'm getting over it . .

anyways, nope you're not a bad bride - I'd say you are a normal bride!

thanks! good luck this weekend!! it'll be great!!

I agree...you're not a bad bride...I think you're normal too. Some people are just more laid back than others and they're able to not let things bother them.

I tend to WORRY about EVERYTHING and am stressed out and sometimes snap at FH too...he's all excited about wedding and I'm worried about all the little details and appts still to make, etc, etc...

There's nothing wrong with that!!!

Ok, I am glad, you posted that, because, I have been thinking I was a bad bride. I am extremely nervous. This is the day that i have dreamt of all my life. My FH is the man I have dreamt of all my life, but it's just scary.. Our lives are changing. we are beginning a new life. We not only do for ourselves but for two. eachother. Its a good scared and nervousness.. So we can't take it like a 'bad' scared. Change is scary. WE'll be fine.. we are allowed to feel this way.. I am most scared of walking down the aisle and crying histerically..

I agree with pschica and JZNCK, it is just scary, but if we weren't a little scareed I think that means we would be taking it too lightly. So we are having the rite emotions

i dont' think you're a bad bride either. i think you're normal. i was just thinking to myself while i was signing on to the site that we have less than 6 months and our lives are changing completely. and while i am so excited for the newness to begin...i scared becuase it's new. change and the unexpected are scary - but that doesn' mean that we're bad people for being afraid of them.

it's scary and it's exciting and its wonderful....and if the end result wasn't worth it - we wouldn't go through all that!