AM I A BRIDEZILLA JUST BECAUSE...

Glamorousbride Posted: Jan 23, 2007 12:58 AM

AM I A BRIDEZILLA JUST BECAUSE...

I DON'T WANT MY BRIDESMAIDS TO HAVE THEIR CHEST COMPLETELYYYY OUT.....I AM GOING FOR AN ELEGANT..CONSERVATIVE ATMOSPHERE......AND I DON'T WANT THEM TO LOOK LIKE THEY'RE ON THE BEACH.......THEY REPRESENT THE WEDDDING...

AM I WRONG? IM NOT PRUDE.....A LIL CLEVAGE IS A GOOD THING.......IM TALKING ABOUT COMPLETELY COMING OUT OF A GOWN.

bettybcafe Posted: Jan 23, 2007 12:59 AM

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You are 1000% correct in feeling that way. Heck, I would feel the same way..you are not going to a club..youre going to a wedding! Things like this anger me

Glamorousbride Posted: Jan 23, 2007 01:00 AM

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THANK YOU---GOOD TO SEE THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT THERE WHO UNDERSTAND ME LOL

queenb07 Posted: Jan 23, 2007 01:01 AM

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No you're not. Some people just don't realize that in a wedding there are two stars (you & FH) and supporting players who should obey reasonable demands such as no indecent exposure.

bettybcafe Posted: Jan 23, 2007 01:01 AM

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Did you let them know that you are unhappy with this??

vmystique33 Posted: Jan 23, 2007 01:01 AM

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Posted by bettybcafe

You are 1000% correct in feeling that way. Heck, I would feel the same way..you are not going to a club..youre going to a wedding! Things like this anger me

Same here!! Your not wrong for feeling this way!!

LyseeH Posted: Jan 23, 2007 03:25 AM

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too much cleavage would look trashy...i competely agree!

AlmostKulak Posted: Jan 23, 2007 07:55 AM

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It's all about you and FH people don't need to be gawking at BM's boobs hanging out all over the place, you are not a bridezilla at all!!

TnOiOnL Posted: Jan 23, 2007 08:00 AM

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I feel the exact same way... My family is old school off the boat Italians... We dont appreciate women hanging out of their dresses at a FORMAL affair!!!

DEFINATLY make sure the seamstresses take care of your girls!!!!

aprlflwr Posted: Jan 23, 2007 08:19 AM

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Posted by queenb07

No you're not. Some people just don't realize that in a wedding there are two stars (you & FH) and supporting players who should obey reasonable demands such as no indecent exposure.

I completely agree. Moreover, you don't want attention diverted away from you.

cherilicious16 Posted: Jan 23, 2007 09:10 AM

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Please.....you are crazy for thinking you might be a bridezilla just beacuse you want a classy wedding!
I had a similar issue and had to say it right out!
You are not a bridezilla!!!!!!!!!

MnM52607 Posted: Jan 23, 2007 09:11 AM

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I agree. My girls are wearing strapless dress and I will be telling the seamstress to make sure that they aren't falling out of the dress.

Marchbride07 Posted: Jan 23, 2007 09:18 AM

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Not a bridezilla at all! You have a right to feel that way! And what girl would want her cleavage all up on display on your wedding day anyways???

portjeffbride Posted: Jan 23, 2007 09:29 AM

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If you're having your wedding in a church or temple, they CAN'T be hanging out!!! It's flat out inappropriate, and the clergy will make a big fuss.

Sigh, I can't believe you're getting @#$@ over wanting your bridal party to be modest! They can tart themselves up all they want on other days... it's just one day!!!

dplehat Posted: Jan 23, 2007 09:36 AM

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You are not wrong!! I had 3 rules for my bm's when they were picking dresses.
1. they had to be the same color green
2. they had to be the same length and finally,
3. the girls had to be put away.

Glamorousbride Posted: Jan 23, 2007 10:54 AM

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I tried to mention it to my bridesmaids...most of them agreed but one of them said 'well we want to look pretty too you know,' I was ready to seriously throw her out of the bridal party. I am killing myself to have a classy wedding, to impress our families,,,and us of course..i dont want them to be sloppy......for 1 day...ugghhh gets me mad lol