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Am I being a Biatch?

june262004 Posted:

Am I being a Biatch?

Some of you may remember my post about my friend since I am 3 years old having to drop out of the wedding. She moved to Ohio and She is going to law school and She got an internship with a law firm The weekend of my wedding she has a mandatory bussiness trip. In no way am I mad at her Im happy for her i am upset she cant be here and so is she.

Well I have this other friend since I was in the 6th grade. She moved to Vegas. I got engaged over 2 years ago (Dec 2001) Since then she has been so excited. She is married to this real A$$HOLE. They got married way to young and not for the right reasons she got pregnant. She has a 5 year old. She got pregnant again. The baby was born in Dec. When she found out she was pregnant her husband left her once again. (not to mention that he beats up on her) They got back together a month after the baby was born I hate him and have hated him for different reasons. Her parents don't welcome him in their house anymore. I have been there for her so many times through so much. Well anyway. I get an email from her a few days ago saying how she is upset that I didnt Pick her as my maid of honor 1st she lives in Vegas 2. She has no money 3. When I picked my MOH no one knew where she was since she couldnt afford a phone. 4. The person I did pick Is someone who has been there for me through a lot. I get an email from her a few days later that says she has no money to even buy the dress. Last night I get an email from her that says She has 2 kids now and cant come to the wedding. I knew this would happen I am so Pi$$ed at HER. I don't even want to talk to her anymore. She could have been saving a few $ for the last 2 years. Am I being a biatch?
mrswask Posted:

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OK - I don't think you are being a B*** for being upset that she is not coming - but I don't think it was really a fair statement to say she could have been saving money for the past two years for the wedding. It's not her top priority - she has two children and I know that children cost a LOT of money to raise!! I agree with you that it was kind of nutty of her to expect that she would be MOH - but she needs to raise her children. I know you're disappointed - but this is her life now.

june262004 Posted:

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I guess u are right Im just so mad at her.
mrswask Posted:

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I can understand that you are letdown - but I think it is sometimes easy for us to forget that our weddings aren't everyone's #1 priority - even though we'd like to think that!!
june262004 Posted:

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I know its not her # 1 priority I guess im annoyed because for on I hate her husband and 2 like a week ago she says how mad she is that I didnt ask her to be my MOH. And know she doesnt even have the money to come here.

june262004 Posted:

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And let me add which I should have put in the first post neither one has a job.
mrswask Posted:

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Like I said before - I agree with you on the MOH part - that just seems strange to me!! I wonder how she thought she could handle the financial responsibilities of being MOH???

butterfly20 Posted:

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i understand your position.. your not being mean... it sounds like she just wanted to be asked to do it.. you made a good choice of picking the person who you can rely on being there for you. its your day, and you should have it the way you want, and have people who care most about you surrounding you

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