Am I being obnoxious?

MrsK-in-June05 Posted: Jul 12, 2004 03:46 PM

Am I being obnoxious?

I know if I have to ask, the answer is yes. But, I am so tired of everyones suggestions that I finally cracked. Someone told me that gerber daisies would not make good bo-k's and that they wilt to easily. So I made a six page packet of bo-k's and I am going to give it to them. I said, 'fine, you don't like it. pick out something else.'
My wedding motto is 'I'm paying for it, so shut up.' But, I am so tired of unsolicited opinions that I have decided its time for someone else to try and plan a wedding!! So, from now on..if someone makes a suggestions they will get six page packet, too!!!

Answer the poll, I need to know if I have cracked!! Is it too late for a Vegas Wedding??

Aga Posted: Jul 12, 2004 03:48 PM

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I am sure if you tell them to do it, they will back off, noone wants to deal with this stress unless it is some control freak... but I dont recommend having anyone plan anything for you cause you might hate it

MrsK-in-June05 Posted: Jul 12, 2004 03:51 PM

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I am mainly doing it to be a pain in the butt because all of these nosey people are a big pain in mine, lol.

Aga Posted: Jul 12, 2004 03:52 PM

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Posted by MrsKinMay05

I am mainly doing it to be a pain in the butt because all of these nosey people are a big pain in mine, lol.

you? pain in the butt? I say, let them have it

MrsK-in-June05 Posted: Jul 12, 2004 03:53 PM

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hehehe..i am the bride and they will do as I say!!! j/k

Aga Posted: Jul 12, 2004 03:55 PM

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MrsK-in-June05 Posted: Jul 12, 2004 03:57 PM

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Posted by Aga

now you got it!! lol

MrsK-in-June05 Posted: Jul 12, 2004 03:58 PM

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Thank goodness for the poll, it is telling me to simmer down. I needed that w/o the posts about it. Just the poll, lol. Constructive criticism at its finest!!! TY all..keep voting!!

tourist Posted: Jul 12, 2004 03:59 PM

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I would do it too, except that I don't have time for 6 page packets!

Aga Posted: Jul 12, 2004 04:00 PM

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if you change your bo-k though, wont you have to change the whole theme of the wedding?

MrsK-in-June05 Posted: Jul 12, 2004 04:00 PM

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Posted by tourist

I would do it too, except that I don't have time for 6 page packets!

First page is a polite letter, second page is a pic of the BM dress and color swatch, the rest is all pics w/lil blurbs about each one.

FeliciaDA Posted: Jul 12, 2004 04:02 PM

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Posted by tourist

I would do it too, except that I don't have time for 6 page packets!

Ditto!!

I wish I could have done that more often in my wedding planning ... giving our packets for soo soo many 'suggestions' that people were giving me.

MrsKinMay05 you are my hero!!

MrsK-in-June05 Posted: Jul 12, 2004 04:03 PM

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Posted by Aga

if you change your bo-k though, wont you have to change the whole theme of the wedding?

Nope, the theme is still the same. Its the colors of a Tiffany & Co. box. I have not found aqua flowers yet, so I will let someone else sort thru every white flowers out there.

MrsK-in-June05 Posted: Jul 12, 2004 04:04 PM

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Posted by FeliciaDA

Posted by tourist

I would do it too, except that I don't have time for 6 page packets!

Ditto!!

I wish I could have done that more often in my wedding planning ... giving our packets for soo soo many 'suggestions' that people were giving me.

MrsKinMay05 you are my hero!!

Not a hero..just a regular, everyday cynic. I am tired of everyone else 'trying' to plan it, so why not let them plan something. That way if it goes wrong I can blame them!!