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am I being overly senisitive?

enewedding Posted:

am I being overly senisitive?

We are having a small wedding and I asked my 2 sister to be in the bridal party.
when ever i speak with my oldest sister she is very into what i have to say about the wedding.
when i speak to my other sister i feel as if she ignores what i say about the wedding.
I am not one that it is wedding talk 24/7.
we have alot going on in our lives right now and everything gets discussed evenly.
an example is i just wrote her a long email about all the things that i had gotten done last weekend and the response that i got back was that she was annoyed that she couldn't go to the beach today.

although we were always closer growing up i am thinking about making my oldest sister my MOH. (i never asked i asked them both just if they would be my wedding party)

i am over reacting? i dont expect the world to revolve around me but i would like for somepeople to show some interest in the biggest moment of my life!
and it is not like her to be so self-centered so i am not even accusing her of that....cause her resposes dont revolve around her most of the time but when it is about my wedding i feel like she always tries to change the subject.




BNBride60 Posted:

Re: am I being overly senisitive?

I think you should tell her how you feel honestly and find out if there is a reason for her acting the way she is before you do anything drastic that might make things worse (like making the other sister MOH).

davenjess Posted:

Re: am I being overly senisitive?

you're not being overly sensitive...

it is normal though - to have people who are not engaged, in relationships or just feeling blah...to feel jealousy towards a wedding...

i'm not saying that your sister is jealous - but right now, maybe she just doesn't want to hear about it.

do whatever you want with regards to the MOH thing - it's your day after all and you are all that matters - but make sure you think about it before you do. You don't want to look back and regret anything!
enewedding Posted:

Re: am I being overly senisitive?

this is not a new thing, just the first time that i feel that i really need to get it off my chest.

i feel like since day one, which was in 12/06
she hasn't wanted to hear a dang thing about my wedding plans.
like i said we are having a small wedding so to be honest there really isn't much to tell. we aren't doing any of the extra and more personal things that I see all you girls doing. we are having a very simple affair.

i never asked her to be MOH
i simply asked them both if they would be in my wedding party so right now i guess no is really my MOH until that day when they are asked to sign as my witness.

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