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So, one of my friends I grew up with just got a apt. and next week she is having a house warming party. I am kinda mad because she says she can't come to my B- party because of money but, its only alittle over $100 and 5 months away. Meanwhile I have gone to her engagement party, shower, batchlorette party (which mind you I spent over $100 for), wedding, 30th birthday party all in like a little over a year. Do you think its being petty to not go to her housewarming party?
i would say that if she was going to your party, to go. but she's not. so i wouldnt sweat it. its not being petty.
you did all that for her and she cant make plans months from now-i think i would have to pass on her paty at this time - you have so much going on right now-----
i don't think so.. i feel that people should always reciprocate when possible.. but if you don't see yourself going because she's not coming to your bparty, you could say that you have a ton of stuff to do.. or show up for a few and leave..
NO ! You have it would seem attended every function for her and she can not attend yours. You have a free pass on this one. Just don't do it if you think you would enjoy yourself and see friends. You do not have to get an expensive gift.
um no not petty. i wouldn't go either
Hmmm I feel the same as you...I wouldnt want to give a gift. However I'd prob at least bring a bottle of wine bc I always give in!
i think i am not going go out of principle
Posted by shcole08
i think i am not going go out of principle
Go to the party but don't bring anything out of spite!
I don't think so at all. In fact, doesn't sound like she cares much about you to NOT do the one thing you asked her/invited her to do. You've gone above and beyond from what you've told us and I feel that you do not have to give her any further funds!
you're not being petty IMO. I wouldn't go either!
I wouldnt go and I would tell her why..
i wouldn't go..i hate cheapness..i understand being short on money, who isn't right now...but you're giving her 5 months to save 100 dollars..i don't think that's too much to ask
